What is the correct wording to use on a party invite to reqwuest that only gag gifts be brought?

We are hosting a birthday party for my 88 year old g-ma and 80 year old uncle. As we are inviting many we haven't seen or even spoken to in years, we don't want to have people bring gifts -- their presence is enough! -- However, we would love to encourage gag gifts -- thinking prep H, Depends, over the hill t's, etc.....


How would I word that on the invite?
What is the correct wording to use on a party invite to reqwuest that only gag gifts be brought?
"we appreciate your great company so really, no gifts are necessary.





if you do want to, please bring gag gifts"
Reply:Not to forget things, but you also need to bring a White Elephant gift.


This is a gift of value between $1 and $20.


it can be silly, fun, or "Oh My God !! Where did that come from!!".


It should be wrapped, but without any markings of who it's from or for.


You do not have to "Buy" something, if you already have a gift about the house that is appropriate for the party.


Note that appropriate is in the eye of the gift giver!





Hope this helps as I love White Elephant parties. You don't have to necessarily use these exact words. Here is a link to how to play the game.
Reply:Please dont take along the usual gifts, make your gifts funny or quirky.





Or "please bring gag gifts!"
Reply:There is really not proper way to instruct your guests on what type of gift you are requesting. It is considered bad etiquette to mention gifts at all on an invitation, unless you are requesting no gifts at all, in which case you would write, "best wishes only."





One other thing - I don't know your family, obviously, but I hope the idea of the gag gift has come from the people being feted. How embarrassing for them if they are expecting a lovely party and end up with adult diapers and preparation H. Call me old-fashioned, but it seems inappropriate, especially if it's a "surprise" for the birthday people.
Reply:Just say it in the invitation, you said it already, guest will understand
Reply:Since you are asking people not to bring gifts, I do not see why you can't just say that on the invite, age appropriate gag gifts might be a nice way to say what you want. See last sentence.


I helped host a gradeschool reunion, and we fixed up a grand prize, full of age appropriate items, it was fun, and well recieved.


We had dentugrip, denture cleaning tablets and soaking tub, flip flop slippers in red plaid, magnifying glasses, prep H, senior vitamins, and on and on.


Hope granny and uncle have a sense of humor!


"In lieu of traditional gifts, we are asking everyone to bring a age appropritate gag gift."
Reply:***note....if you are inclined to bring a gift we would appreicate "gag gifts". It would contribute to the fun for _______.
Reply:I would write just that. Exactly what your qustion asks.
Reply:If bringing a gift Grandma has everything but any gag gift for over the hill would be fun and perfect for her. Let's all come up with some real funny stuff. See ya at the party.
Reply:IT IS IMPROPER AND NOT SOCIALLY CORRECT TO STATE WHAT TYPES OF GIFTS YOU WOULD LIKE. I LOVE THE LINE"YOUR PRESENCE IS HER PRESENT" THOUGH
Reply:In keeping with the spirit of fun, we request that you only bring gag gifts. The crazier the better! We look forward to seeing you there!
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