please help!
How do i do remote assistance on MSN? i invite, he accepts and then nothing happens?
Need to check out if either of you have firewalls blocking it. I do thes all the time and you have to make sure the firewalls are set to allow it to pass..
Saturday, October 24, 2009
I have a friend from canada.he want to invite me to visit canada.what things i will need to get a visa?
i have a friend from canada he wants to invite to canada for visit.what documents i should have?
I have a friend from canada.he want to invite me to visit canada.what things i will need to get a visa?
it depends on what country you are coming from. You don't need a visa to travel from the USA, but you do now need a passport.
Reply:You wont need a visa. You will however need a passport. You can apply for one at most post offices. The application fee is 30 dollars and the processing fee is 60 bucks. Also you will need to mail in an Original copy of your birth certificate(in most states,you can purchase one for less than 20 bucks at a vital statistics office) mail it in with your passport application and have passport photos taken( you can have these done at Walgreens or the post office). If you need your passport pronto, you can pay extra to have it processed quickly.
Reply:i didn't think that you need a visa to travel between the USA and Canada just the proper government id
Reply:where and in country are u living, i mean which country you are a citizen of. the reply depends on your nationality.,
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I have a friend from canada.he want to invite me to visit canada.what things i will need to get a visa?
it depends on what country you are coming from. You don't need a visa to travel from the USA, but you do now need a passport.
Reply:You wont need a visa. You will however need a passport. You can apply for one at most post offices. The application fee is 30 dollars and the processing fee is 60 bucks. Also you will need to mail in an Original copy of your birth certificate(in most states,you can purchase one for less than 20 bucks at a vital statistics office) mail it in with your passport application and have passport photos taken( you can have these done at Walgreens or the post office). If you need your passport pronto, you can pay extra to have it processed quickly.
Reply:i didn't think that you need a visa to travel between the USA and Canada just the proper government id
Reply:where and in country are u living, i mean which country you are a citizen of. the reply depends on your nationality.,
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Who would you invite to your Hypothetical Dinner Party ?
You can invite five to ten guests.
They can be people from History, or from Fiction or from people living today.(please explain why they were selected in one sentence)
what would you serve them and what party game would you play
Who would you invite to your Hypothetical Dinner Party ?
Nelson Mandela : Always wanted to meet him.
Marilyn Monroe: To find out how she died.
Cleopatra: To find out if she was as beautiful as they say.
Harold Lasseter :His story fascinates me.
Alice In Wonderland: So I could look through the looking glass.
Boadicea:To see if she lives up to the legend.
Leonardo Di Vinci:So he could paint my picture.
Nostradamus: To find out if he is genuine or a fake.
Guinevere: So I would know King Arthur did exist.
And last but not least Jesus so I could meet the man who influenced so many.
I would feed them Italian food because it goes so well with red wine and we could all do with a glass of that.
I would play Who am I ?
Great question Jenny I would have to invite you too.
Reply:Jesus
Thomas Jefferson
Nikola Tesla
Sir Isaac Newton
Leonardo Da Vinci
Moses
Noah
Larry Nelson
You
Robert A Heinlein
I would have a BBQ buffet (no pork for obvious reasons)
I don't know any party games as I don't do party's and would leave that up to them.I figure the conversation would be stimulating enough.
I assume some kind of universal translator would have to be employed.
Can there be a sleep over? Like for a year or so?
They can be people from History, or from Fiction or from people living today.(please explain why they were selected in one sentence)
what would you serve them and what party game would you play
Who would you invite to your Hypothetical Dinner Party ?
Nelson Mandela : Always wanted to meet him.
Marilyn Monroe: To find out how she died.
Cleopatra: To find out if she was as beautiful as they say.
Harold Lasseter :His story fascinates me.
Alice In Wonderland: So I could look through the looking glass.
Boadicea:To see if she lives up to the legend.
Leonardo Di Vinci:So he could paint my picture.
Nostradamus: To find out if he is genuine or a fake.
Guinevere: So I would know King Arthur did exist.
And last but not least Jesus so I could meet the man who influenced so many.
I would feed them Italian food because it goes so well with red wine and we could all do with a glass of that.
I would play Who am I ?
Great question Jenny I would have to invite you too.
Reply:Jesus
Thomas Jefferson
Nikola Tesla
Sir Isaac Newton
Leonardo Da Vinci
Moses
Noah
Larry Nelson
You
Robert A Heinlein
I would have a BBQ buffet (no pork for obvious reasons)
I don't know any party games as I don't do party's and would leave that up to them.I figure the conversation would be stimulating enough.
I assume some kind of universal translator would have to be employed.
Can there be a sleep over? Like for a year or so?
I am having a destination wedding on the beach in South Carolina. Is it necessary to invite children?
The problem is, if I invite ALL children, there will be about 12-15 kids, half of them 8 months and younger and the other half toddlers up to 12 years old. I don't want children running around at my wedding. I have always wanted an adult reception so everyone can have fun and not worry about watching their kids or feeding them bottles. I live in Ohio and I know that people will have to travel for my wedding and they will want to bring their kids...but I really don't want a baby crying in the middle of my vows, which would be totally possible...and, again, I want people to have fun and not worry.
I am having a destination wedding on the beach in South Carolina. Is it necessary to invite children?
Try to solve the problem this way: Invite the children, but provide a baby-sitter at the wedding. That way, your friends and family can bring the kids along and you can have your child-free wedding as well. If you don't invite the kids, a lot of people are probably going to choose to stay home rather than leaving their babies with a sitter for an extended period of time.
Reply:So who do you think would care for these children while their parents are in South Carolina? You're asking alot for someone to attend a destination wedding %26amp; you need to be sensitive to the fact that some of your guests have small children. I am all for an adults-only reception when the wedding is local, but in this case, I think you're going to get a number of declined invitations....
Reply:Contact a nanny service in Charleston before you go and arrange for a set day and time for them to provide sitting. Provide this to your guests as a gift to allow them to have some adult time.
http://yellowpages.charleston.com/Nannie...
Or, look on craigslist.org
Reply:you're agist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:It is not unreasonable at all not to want children interrupting your ceremony and during speeches etc. It is also not reasonable to expect people to travel and not bring their children. It will be best to invite the parents and inform them that they are welcome to bring their children, but that they will be accommodated seperately at a hired bungalo or hotel room nearby with one or two qualified child minders. In this way the parents will know that their children are nearby, looked after, kept busy and you can enjoy a child free wedding. A win win for everyone.
If you need some more advice on planning your beach wedding try http://www.beachwedding-guide.com
Good luck!
Reply:YOu do not have to invite children. My friend just got married and put a HUGE disclaimer in the invitation, NO children. it was an adult affair and ti was lovely.
it's your day, girl. you can do whateva you want!
Reply:It's fine. Most weddings I go to there are no children. 12 and over seems appropriate.
I am having a destination wedding on the beach in South Carolina. Is it necessary to invite children?
Try to solve the problem this way: Invite the children, but provide a baby-sitter at the wedding. That way, your friends and family can bring the kids along and you can have your child-free wedding as well. If you don't invite the kids, a lot of people are probably going to choose to stay home rather than leaving their babies with a sitter for an extended period of time.
Reply:So who do you think would care for these children while their parents are in South Carolina? You're asking alot for someone to attend a destination wedding %26amp; you need to be sensitive to the fact that some of your guests have small children. I am all for an adults-only reception when the wedding is local, but in this case, I think you're going to get a number of declined invitations....
Reply:Contact a nanny service in Charleston before you go and arrange for a set day and time for them to provide sitting. Provide this to your guests as a gift to allow them to have some adult time.
http://yellowpages.charleston.com/Nannie...
Or, look on craigslist.org
Reply:you're agist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:It is not unreasonable at all not to want children interrupting your ceremony and during speeches etc. It is also not reasonable to expect people to travel and not bring their children. It will be best to invite the parents and inform them that they are welcome to bring their children, but that they will be accommodated seperately at a hired bungalo or hotel room nearby with one or two qualified child minders. In this way the parents will know that their children are nearby, looked after, kept busy and you can enjoy a child free wedding. A win win for everyone.
If you need some more advice on planning your beach wedding try http://www.beachwedding-guide.com
Good luck!
Reply:YOu do not have to invite children. My friend just got married and put a HUGE disclaimer in the invitation, NO children. it was an adult affair and ti was lovely.
it's your day, girl. you can do whateva you want!
Reply:It's fine. Most weddings I go to there are no children. 12 and over seems appropriate.
Party planning.... if i would like 100 guests to attend a party, how many people must i invite on average?
is there a ratio formula for figuring out the number of guest who will actually show up at a party they were invited to?
Party planning.... if i would like 100 guests to attend a party, how many people must i invite on average?
well there isn't a certain ratio to go by;;but if you want 100 people to show up, you should at least invite 200..i would say that would be a good number..
hope you have a great party =]
Reply:never was good at math dunno about a ratio but i would say if you want 100 ppl to show up and knowing that everyone might not show if you just invited 100 i'd say invite 1 to 2 extra ppl for every person you invite, but have enough food for those extra ppl in case everyone you invite shows up
Party planning.... if i would like 100 guests to attend a party, how many people must i invite on average?
well there isn't a certain ratio to go by;;but if you want 100 people to show up, you should at least invite 200..i would say that would be a good number..
hope you have a great party =]
Reply:never was good at math dunno about a ratio but i would say if you want 100 ppl to show up and knowing that everyone might not show if you just invited 100 i'd say invite 1 to 2 extra ppl for every person you invite, but have enough food for those extra ppl in case everyone you invite shows up
Should I invite future in-laws to my bridal shower?
My future step-mother-in-law is throwing me a bridal shower 3 weeks before my own mother is throwing me one. Should I still invite my mother-in-law and her family to this shower?
Also, my fianc茅's biological mother will be in attendance at the one my mother is throwing and my mother-in-law and my step-mother-in-law aren't on the best of terms. Any thoughts or advice?
Should I invite future in-laws to my bridal shower?
You shouldn't have to invite anyone to your
bridal shower. You shouldn't even know
about it. It is something your friends are
supposed to get together and surprise
you with.
Tell whomever is giving you the shower
who you would like to attend and give
the address's. In-laws are fine.
Reply:I had similar problems with my wedding. I decided to invite everyone and let them sort it out. I only had one bridal shower though. I think it is appropriate to invite your future MIL to your mother's shower. However since there is bad blood between her and the biological mom, I would call her a week before the shower and let her know that the bio mom will be there. I also think you should say something to the effect that since she is going to the trouble of throwing you a shower you don't want her to feel obligated to attend another shower. That way she has a classy out.
Reply:If you will see your step mother-in-law often I would maybe say something just to prevent her from feeling excluded. things like that always come up in the future. I'd give her the option if I were you. It's safer to invite both, tell them who is going to be there %26amp; that they are expected to behave well at the events should they choose to come.
Reply:I would be honest about the whole situation. I'd tell your future step momma in law that your mom is having a bridal shower and your future momma in law will be there. Tell her she is welcome to come. Also ask your future hubby what he thinks.
Reply:Yes, all future inlaws should be invited to any bridal shower that involves your own parents. HOWEVER, it is not usual for said inlaws to decide not to attend - just to pre-warn you.
Reply:Keep the one your mom is throwing as exclusive for your family and friends.
I would also invite the stepMIL out for dinner as a thanks for throwing you a shower.
Your stepMIL really doesn't need to go to both showers.
Reply:I would just keep them separate and if either mother in law asks, just tell them that you wanted nice parties without them getting uncomfortable with each other.
Reply:sure! why not! they should be civil for you. its a special time in your life, so they shouldn't throw down or anything. congrats!
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Also, my fianc茅's biological mother will be in attendance at the one my mother is throwing and my mother-in-law and my step-mother-in-law aren't on the best of terms. Any thoughts or advice?
Should I invite future in-laws to my bridal shower?
You shouldn't have to invite anyone to your
bridal shower. You shouldn't even know
about it. It is something your friends are
supposed to get together and surprise
you with.
Tell whomever is giving you the shower
who you would like to attend and give
the address's. In-laws are fine.
Reply:I had similar problems with my wedding. I decided to invite everyone and let them sort it out. I only had one bridal shower though. I think it is appropriate to invite your future MIL to your mother's shower. However since there is bad blood between her and the biological mom, I would call her a week before the shower and let her know that the bio mom will be there. I also think you should say something to the effect that since she is going to the trouble of throwing you a shower you don't want her to feel obligated to attend another shower. That way she has a classy out.
Reply:If you will see your step mother-in-law often I would maybe say something just to prevent her from feeling excluded. things like that always come up in the future. I'd give her the option if I were you. It's safer to invite both, tell them who is going to be there %26amp; that they are expected to behave well at the events should they choose to come.
Reply:I would be honest about the whole situation. I'd tell your future step momma in law that your mom is having a bridal shower and your future momma in law will be there. Tell her she is welcome to come. Also ask your future hubby what he thinks.
Reply:Yes, all future inlaws should be invited to any bridal shower that involves your own parents. HOWEVER, it is not usual for said inlaws to decide not to attend - just to pre-warn you.
Reply:Keep the one your mom is throwing as exclusive for your family and friends.
I would also invite the stepMIL out for dinner as a thanks for throwing you a shower.
Your stepMIL really doesn't need to go to both showers.
Reply:I would just keep them separate and if either mother in law asks, just tell them that you wanted nice parties without them getting uncomfortable with each other.
Reply:sure! why not! they should be civil for you. its a special time in your life, so they shouldn't throw down or anything. congrats!
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Can I invite a few people to the ceremony and more to the reception?
and if I do that, how do I get invitations??? Thanks
Can I invite a few people to the ceremony and more to the reception?
It would be tacky if you have the reception and wedding in the same place. (because people will show up early for the reception and see whats going on.)
If you have the wedding and reception in two different places, then it would be exceptable. This is common.
Reply:I have received many invitations to the receptions since the bride and groom want to keep the ceremony private. That is very common. First, get the invitations for the wedding. Then, figure out how many you will need for the reception and then add the wedding amount to that. Then, send out the invitations for both. RSVP ONLY if you are doing a sit down supper or have an open bar. You do not need RSVP if the reception is for finger foods in the middle of the afternoon at some hall and there is no open bar. On the reception invitations, just talk about the reception. Saying that "bride" and "groom" cordually invites you to attend the reception of the wedding at Maybell's Finery on Saturday, February 30, 1090 at 2:30 PM. Word could get around from the bridesmaids that the chapel is so small, the guest list had to be for family only for the small wedding, but wanted friends and other family to share the party with them.
Reply:I agree with the poster above- if you're going to invite some people to the reception and not the ceremony then don't have them at the same place. It'd just be awkward for guests that turn up early!
It can be hard deciding who gets invited to the ceremony without offending anyone. It's probably best to stick with very close family and your best friends- otherwise Aunt Mary will get annoyed that Aunt Betty was invited to the ceremony and she wasn't. Or if one co-worker is invited and not another. Most people are understanding if you just want to have immediate family at the ceremony and then others at the reception.
Just give separate invitations- those you want at both, include both on the invite. Those you want only at the reception, only have the reception listed on the invite (not the ceremony). On these invites you could say something like...
Jack and Jill request the pleasure of your company at their wedding reception...
or
Jack and Jill request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their marriage..
Reply:I personally ould not invite anyone to the reception who has not ben invited to the ceremony.
If I was only invited to a reception I would feel like I was good enough to party with them but not good enough to share that special moment with them when they exchange vows and become husband and wife. Which afterall is the most important part of the day.
I have heard of people being invited to the ceremony and not the reception. People understand that receptions are expensive and not everyone can go and often just want to see the ceremony but then that also comes down to the relationship you have with that person and how close they are to the couple.
Reply:It's not so uncommon. I have been to several receptions where the ceremony was private due to religious reasons (for instance, Mormon weddings in the temple may only be attended by church members that have a particular status within the church) or because the wedding venue is so small that only a very few guests may attend.
Reception-only invitations look basically like wedding invitations, but are worded differently. Something like:
Mary Moore
and
James Johnson
will be married in a private ceremony on June 4, 2008
They invite you to join them afterward for a reception
celebrating their marriage
Seven o'clock in the evening
Rolling Hills Country Club
Springfield, Colorado
Reply:send a marriage announcement out to all of the guests...the ones you intend on having at the ceremony send them an invitation with the reception info also in the envelope. For anyone else just do the announcement and put the reception info in that envelope. The announcements are usually used after the wedding to inform collegues, distant family, or old friends of the wedding but they can be used this way too.
Reply:It is not rude to invite a few people to your ceremony and everyone and their dog to your party. You can look on any etiquitte website and it will tell you it is acceptable. What I am doing is printing the main invite for the reception and inclosing a seperate wedding info sheet (with map, as it is at our house in the woods) for the close family and friends that are invited to the ceremony.
You do what you want and have a great wedding!
Reply:I think if presented the right way it's okay.
But I have to disagree with the poster who said R.s.v.p.s are only for sit-downs or open bars. Even for finger foods you're going to have to know how much food to provide, and buying a whole bunch of extra that you might not need just someone said not to send R.s.v.p.s for hor d'oeuvres receptions...that's so not fair to you and your fiancee. Why should a having a finger-food reception mean you are expected to risk wasting your money?
Best of luck with all of it.
Reply:Yes, that is what most people do anyways. You get invites for the cer+reception and then you get invites for the reception only.
Reply:It's very rude to do that. You invite the same people to both - so they witness the vows at the ceremony, then celebrate with you at the reception.
Reply:I think that will cause problems with your guests. Two different invites go out will be confusing. Some will wonder why they weren't asked to the ceremony. I wouldn't do it.
Reply:You would send out seperate invites to those who are only invited to the reception. Making sure that you keep these seperate and have a seperate list for each! Good luck
Reply:Sounds tacky.
Can I invite a few people to the ceremony and more to the reception?
It would be tacky if you have the reception and wedding in the same place. (because people will show up early for the reception and see whats going on.)
If you have the wedding and reception in two different places, then it would be exceptable. This is common.
Reply:I have received many invitations to the receptions since the bride and groom want to keep the ceremony private. That is very common. First, get the invitations for the wedding. Then, figure out how many you will need for the reception and then add the wedding amount to that. Then, send out the invitations for both. RSVP ONLY if you are doing a sit down supper or have an open bar. You do not need RSVP if the reception is for finger foods in the middle of the afternoon at some hall and there is no open bar. On the reception invitations, just talk about the reception. Saying that "bride" and "groom" cordually invites you to attend the reception of the wedding at Maybell's Finery on Saturday, February 30, 1090 at 2:30 PM. Word could get around from the bridesmaids that the chapel is so small, the guest list had to be for family only for the small wedding, but wanted friends and other family to share the party with them.
Reply:I agree with the poster above- if you're going to invite some people to the reception and not the ceremony then don't have them at the same place. It'd just be awkward for guests that turn up early!
It can be hard deciding who gets invited to the ceremony without offending anyone. It's probably best to stick with very close family and your best friends- otherwise Aunt Mary will get annoyed that Aunt Betty was invited to the ceremony and she wasn't. Or if one co-worker is invited and not another. Most people are understanding if you just want to have immediate family at the ceremony and then others at the reception.
Just give separate invitations- those you want at both, include both on the invite. Those you want only at the reception, only have the reception listed on the invite (not the ceremony). On these invites you could say something like...
Jack and Jill request the pleasure of your company at their wedding reception...
or
Jack and Jill request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their marriage..
Reply:I personally ould not invite anyone to the reception who has not ben invited to the ceremony.
If I was only invited to a reception I would feel like I was good enough to party with them but not good enough to share that special moment with them when they exchange vows and become husband and wife. Which afterall is the most important part of the day.
I have heard of people being invited to the ceremony and not the reception. People understand that receptions are expensive and not everyone can go and often just want to see the ceremony but then that also comes down to the relationship you have with that person and how close they are to the couple.
Reply:It's not so uncommon. I have been to several receptions where the ceremony was private due to religious reasons (for instance, Mormon weddings in the temple may only be attended by church members that have a particular status within the church) or because the wedding venue is so small that only a very few guests may attend.
Reception-only invitations look basically like wedding invitations, but are worded differently. Something like:
Mary Moore
and
James Johnson
will be married in a private ceremony on June 4, 2008
They invite you to join them afterward for a reception
celebrating their marriage
Seven o'clock in the evening
Rolling Hills Country Club
Springfield, Colorado
Reply:send a marriage announcement out to all of the guests...the ones you intend on having at the ceremony send them an invitation with the reception info also in the envelope. For anyone else just do the announcement and put the reception info in that envelope. The announcements are usually used after the wedding to inform collegues, distant family, or old friends of the wedding but they can be used this way too.
Reply:It is not rude to invite a few people to your ceremony and everyone and their dog to your party. You can look on any etiquitte website and it will tell you it is acceptable. What I am doing is printing the main invite for the reception and inclosing a seperate wedding info sheet (with map, as it is at our house in the woods) for the close family and friends that are invited to the ceremony.
You do what you want and have a great wedding!
Reply:I think if presented the right way it's okay.
But I have to disagree with the poster who said R.s.v.p.s are only for sit-downs or open bars. Even for finger foods you're going to have to know how much food to provide, and buying a whole bunch of extra that you might not need just someone said not to send R.s.v.p.s for hor d'oeuvres receptions...that's so not fair to you and your fiancee. Why should a having a finger-food reception mean you are expected to risk wasting your money?
Best of luck with all of it.
Reply:Yes, that is what most people do anyways. You get invites for the cer+reception and then you get invites for the reception only.
Reply:It's very rude to do that. You invite the same people to both - so they witness the vows at the ceremony, then celebrate with you at the reception.
Reply:I think that will cause problems with your guests. Two different invites go out will be confusing. Some will wonder why they weren't asked to the ceremony. I wouldn't do it.
Reply:You would send out seperate invites to those who are only invited to the reception. Making sure that you keep these seperate and have a seperate list for each! Good luck
Reply:Sounds tacky.
Why do you think the European did not invite Africans to the Berlin Conference ? What be the effect of this?
exclusion upon later African leaders.
Why do you think the European did not invite Africans to the Berlin Conference ? What be the effect of this?
they didn't invite they africans because they though they were superior to them and the africans could do nothing about it. The africans became very upset when their tribal boundaries were replaced with new European boundaries and many civil wars broke out and are still happening today
Reply:haha becuase the europeans didn't give a **** about what the africans wanted. europe was invading their country and colonizing it for themselves. they weren't going to try and negotiate with africans b/c the africans would oppose the whole thing.
Why do you think the European did not invite Africans to the Berlin Conference ? What be the effect of this?
they didn't invite they africans because they though they were superior to them and the africans could do nothing about it. The africans became very upset when their tribal boundaries were replaced with new European boundaries and many civil wars broke out and are still happening today
Reply:haha becuase the europeans didn't give a **** about what the africans wanted. europe was invading their country and colonizing it for themselves. they weren't going to try and negotiate with africans b/c the africans would oppose the whole thing.
Shall i invite her a lunch or to leave her alone?
before two days she asked me to avoid her if not she told me she will avoid me. what do you advise me b/c i'm intending to invite her a lunch but fear she will not respond.even if i know her irreversible decision i hesitate to be silent,b/c i don't want to loose her.
Shall i invite her a lunch or to leave her alone?
Maybe you didn't hear what she said the first time.
Reply:Its worth asking.
Reply:If she wants you to avoid each other, then you've already lost her. Don't ask her to lunch; she already told you to avoid her so asking her would be harassment.
Reply:your a stalker mate leave her alone or you will see yourself in cells being gangbanged by the big boys
Reply:try it!
Reply:Leave her alone. You've already lost her. Don't stalk.
Shall i invite her a lunch or to leave her alone?
Maybe you didn't hear what she said the first time.
Reply:Its worth asking.
Reply:If she wants you to avoid each other, then you've already lost her. Don't ask her to lunch; she already told you to avoid her so asking her would be harassment.
Reply:your a stalker mate leave her alone or you will see yourself in cells being gangbanged by the big boys
Reply:try it!
Reply:Leave her alone. You've already lost her. Don't stalk.
What is a Certificate of Accommodation, and where do I get it? I want to invite a friend from Algeria to visit
I imagine it is like an invitation letter. I needed one to go to China (I am in the USA). So I am guessing it is the same in reverse.
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If you were about to throw a party which users on this section would you invite?
ill invite all users who have:
Common sense..
originality..
personality..
Wild..
Considerate...
hot..
outgoing..
If you were about to throw a party which users on this section would you invite?
of course all of my contacts =]
no wait maybe i would invite everyone because if i have a party and i only invite my contacts it would really be empty since i only have about 8 contacts=]
Reply:Those over 21 years old - it's no fun if my party can't have liquor, and I don't want to take the risk of minors drinking at my house. No offense juniors.
@EC - my P.O. told me I can't do that anymore.
Reply:Well over 21 will be tough. you'd have only about 10 people, plus i don't recall you having a problem serving liquor to minors before. In fact I'm sure you have told kids to take up drinking.
Reply:dame carolyn n audi
stefy
marky
terry
el gato
marco
sasan
freshy
chuy
owen
hannah
n sooooooooooooooooooomany more
all my contacts
n all my friends on here
theres no party without em!
Reply:haha i would invite everybody! its always fun with every one.it would be a awsome party!!!!
Reply:Since when do only over 21-er drink?
Anywho I'd invite whoever wants to come.
I say we play twister :D
Reply:my contacts and the soccer lovers:)
Common sense..
originality..
personality..
Wild..
Considerate...
hot..
outgoing..
If you were about to throw a party which users on this section would you invite?
of course all of my contacts =]
no wait maybe i would invite everyone because if i have a party and i only invite my contacts it would really be empty since i only have about 8 contacts=]
Reply:Those over 21 years old - it's no fun if my party can't have liquor, and I don't want to take the risk of minors drinking at my house. No offense juniors.
@EC - my P.O. told me I can't do that anymore.
Reply:Well over 21 will be tough. you'd have only about 10 people, plus i don't recall you having a problem serving liquor to minors before. In fact I'm sure you have told kids to take up drinking.
Reply:dame carolyn n audi
stefy
marky
terry
el gato
marco
sasan
freshy
chuy
owen
hannah
n sooooooooooooooooooomany more
all my contacts
n all my friends on here
theres no party without em!
Reply:haha i would invite everybody! its always fun with every one.it would be a awsome party!!!!
Reply:Since when do only over 21-er drink?
Anywho I'd invite whoever wants to come.
I say we play twister :D
Reply:my contacts and the soccer lovers:)
Should i invite all my relatives to my wedding?
May fiance and i have thought that we should only invite between 100 and 120 people to our wedding. We want a more personal wedding, so we're only wanting to invite close family and friends.
I have a large extended family, and i don't know them and i don't really get along with them. If we don't invite them, i know they will get offended by not being invited.
Should we invite them, even though i don't really want them to attend just to keep them happy or do what we want to do?
Should i invite all my relatives to my wedding?
My daughter is cutting hers off at 1st cousins, adults only. That means my cousins, my wifes aunts, etc... will not be invited.
Her fiance is in total accord with this and any one who complained just reinforces the sound reasoning behind it. They wouldn't be happy, no matter what she does.
Reply:If you don't know them or don't get along with them, I highly doubt they would be offended. I have a very large extended family as well, and most of them I see once a year if even, and they weren't invited to the wedding. There were no hard feelings and they told me that they were happy for me with lots of smiles.
Just because you are getting married doesn't mean that every last person on your family tree needs to be invited. Make a guest list with immediate family and close friends first, people that you really do want there. After that, see how much room you have to move with and possibly invite some of the extended family that you are closer with.
If you don't know these family members, nor get along with them, chances are they won't even hear about marriage until its much later, or they would RSVP with a "no" anyways.
Reply:if you do not know them..how is it you do not get along? anyway.. invite them.. chances are...they will not come anyway. if what you say is true
Reply:you know what..
sometimes you can't always do what other people want you to do..
weddings are expensive.. I say invite any relatives you feel might be offeneded to the reception only
Reply:Good heavens--stop worrying. This is to be your wedding. And if you don't like them or see them ever, anyway, when would you hear from them that they were offended. Keep it small. And it might be nice to simply send out wedding announcements after the deed is done. Everyone knows how expensive weddings are, and if the extended family gets their nose out of joint, then so be it. Who cares anyway. It would soon be forgotten. However, you will miss out on the numerous shower and wedding gifts that would surely have been given. Happy life together.
Reply:I just got married last August and we decided to just invite close friends and family. It turned out to be the right choice. You have to keep in mind that this is your wedding and you should make sure you are doing it the way you want. Have a personal wedding and if you are still worried about those extended family members send them a wedding announcement after the wedding. They don't have to be expensive either. I just went to my local photo developer and made one of our wedding pictures into a card and put the location, time, date and new last name in the card. I also would put a little note or caption having to with the wedding. I hope this helps!
Reply:If you don't get along with them, why would you care if they are offended.
Invite the ones you LIKE! lol The more people you have, the more expensive your wedding and reception bill will be.
What's more important: YOU being happy or THEM being happy?
Stick to your original numbers...
Good luck!
Reply:i am not going to invite my whole family, my fiance and i r having a low key wedding in a park we r only inviting 100 ppl immediate family and close friends
Reply:Do not invite them! You and your fiance have the wedding you want without the pressure of having more guests than you want or can afford. What you can do though is after the wedding have a get together with everyone at your new home or your or his parents home to celebrate your union. Keep it simple with drinks and appetizers. That will keep any feelings from being hurt and they will be included in the celebration of your wedding.
Reply:i know u'd love to invite everyone, but thats not possible. my hubby %26amp; i wanted people at our wedding that would remember us 3yrs down the line, people who actually mean somethign to us. we decided om a beach breakfast buffet for 30 people! only immediate family %26amp; never regretted it
Reply:I personally wouldn't bother about family you are not close to, or rarely see. Those particular relations should understand that you're trying to restrict numbers and hopefully won't mind that you don't invite them.
I have four cousins in this country that I shall not be bothering to invite to my own wedding since we have never been close and two of them live quite far away anyway.
I have a large extended family, and i don't know them and i don't really get along with them. If we don't invite them, i know they will get offended by not being invited.
Should we invite them, even though i don't really want them to attend just to keep them happy or do what we want to do?
Should i invite all my relatives to my wedding?
My daughter is cutting hers off at 1st cousins, adults only. That means my cousins, my wifes aunts, etc... will not be invited.
Her fiance is in total accord with this and any one who complained just reinforces the sound reasoning behind it. They wouldn't be happy, no matter what she does.
Reply:If you don't know them or don't get along with them, I highly doubt they would be offended. I have a very large extended family as well, and most of them I see once a year if even, and they weren't invited to the wedding. There were no hard feelings and they told me that they were happy for me with lots of smiles.
Just because you are getting married doesn't mean that every last person on your family tree needs to be invited. Make a guest list with immediate family and close friends first, people that you really do want there. After that, see how much room you have to move with and possibly invite some of the extended family that you are closer with.
If you don't know these family members, nor get along with them, chances are they won't even hear about marriage until its much later, or they would RSVP with a "no" anyways.
Reply:if you do not know them..how is it you do not get along? anyway.. invite them.. chances are...they will not come anyway. if what you say is true
Reply:you know what..
sometimes you can't always do what other people want you to do..
weddings are expensive.. I say invite any relatives you feel might be offeneded to the reception only
Reply:Good heavens--stop worrying. This is to be your wedding. And if you don't like them or see them ever, anyway, when would you hear from them that they were offended. Keep it small. And it might be nice to simply send out wedding announcements after the deed is done. Everyone knows how expensive weddings are, and if the extended family gets their nose out of joint, then so be it. Who cares anyway. It would soon be forgotten. However, you will miss out on the numerous shower and wedding gifts that would surely have been given. Happy life together.
Reply:I just got married last August and we decided to just invite close friends and family. It turned out to be the right choice. You have to keep in mind that this is your wedding and you should make sure you are doing it the way you want. Have a personal wedding and if you are still worried about those extended family members send them a wedding announcement after the wedding. They don't have to be expensive either. I just went to my local photo developer and made one of our wedding pictures into a card and put the location, time, date and new last name in the card. I also would put a little note or caption having to with the wedding. I hope this helps!
Reply:If you don't get along with them, why would you care if they are offended.
Invite the ones you LIKE! lol The more people you have, the more expensive your wedding and reception bill will be.
What's more important: YOU being happy or THEM being happy?
Stick to your original numbers...
Good luck!
Reply:i am not going to invite my whole family, my fiance and i r having a low key wedding in a park we r only inviting 100 ppl immediate family and close friends
Reply:Do not invite them! You and your fiance have the wedding you want without the pressure of having more guests than you want or can afford. What you can do though is after the wedding have a get together with everyone at your new home or your or his parents home to celebrate your union. Keep it simple with drinks and appetizers. That will keep any feelings from being hurt and they will be included in the celebration of your wedding.
Reply:i know u'd love to invite everyone, but thats not possible. my hubby %26amp; i wanted people at our wedding that would remember us 3yrs down the line, people who actually mean somethign to us. we decided om a beach breakfast buffet for 30 people! only immediate family %26amp; never regretted it
Reply:I personally wouldn't bother about family you are not close to, or rarely see. Those particular relations should understand that you're trying to restrict numbers and hopefully won't mind that you don't invite them.
I have four cousins in this country that I shall not be bothering to invite to my own wedding since we have never been close and two of them live quite far away anyway.
Help me write a letter of invitation to invite my colleague to my wedding party?
I want to invite my friend tom to my wedding party
Help me write a letter of invitation to invite my colleague to my wedding party?
jusy go on google rite wedding venues, and loads come up
Reply:letter of invitation? I would ask in person. Shake their hand then shove your right shoulder into theirs. Then pat on back.
Reply:arent these what invitations are for?
Help me write a letter of invitation to invite my colleague to my wedding party?
jusy go on google rite wedding venues, and loads come up
Reply:letter of invitation? I would ask in person. Shake their hand then shove your right shoulder into theirs. Then pat on back.
Reply:arent these what invitations are for?
Received an invite for a Christmas party from a client. Accept or decline?
My job involves sometimes highly technical legal stuff and at times I do have to say "No" to customer requests, even though they may not like it.
If I accept invites and go to their Christmas parties, will I lose my voice? Will I feel obliged?
During the past years also I have declined such invites giving some silly reason.
Received an invite for a Christmas party from a client. Accept or decline?
I have to go to a lot of social functions out of pure obligation. I've attended as many as 4 in one night. If you don't want to go and feel you need to do so, here's what to do. Walk in, get a glass of something to carry, circle the room, smile and say hello to everyone briefly, thank the host and leave. You can work a party in 20 minutes. You've shown up and kept a client and still have the night free.
Reply:Most businesses invite people to Office Christmas Parties because they want to share a social occasion outside of the office environment.
The time is meant to be social and business should not be discussed.
If you go to the party and someone starts talking business - you can say 'yes...let talk about that at the office next week'.
Only accept the invitation if you WANT to socialize with the client contacts you already know or if you would like to meet new contacts. (This is networking)
If you do accept, be sure and go. No shows always look bad.
Reply:Hmm. Are you feeling like you may end up "in their pocket," so to speak, if you accept some hospitality from them? I think that if they have chosen to invite you, and you think it might be fun to go, then go. Bring a bottle of wine, or a box of good chocolates, or something like that, as a host/ess gift. That way, you haven't gotten something for nothing.
Reply:Go to the party, good PR karma. And have a good time. Take a little inexpensive Xmas themed gift to the hostess. You might ask if they have a tree, or if the hostess has some kind of Xmas collection, like snow people or angels.
You can talk about what you do, just cut it off when the questions get too technical, just say, I not allowed to be specific. Talk vague, yeh, I do some technical legal work for...
Come armed with some cute Xmas jokes, or stories.
If you are in doubt,check the employee manual, and if still in doubt, ask a boss if there is any reason you should not go, and mention you were considering it because you thought if would be good PR, and there was nothing in the manual that said not to.
If at the party the customer/host says something that makes you think you are about to be bribed, politely leave. "Oh, gee George, I can't do that, but thanks for inviting me, great party.".
Reply:As a health care professional, I too am often approached for free advice. If it's an easy to answer to question, I respond in a neighborly, helpful way. But if it's at all complex, my response is "I'm sorry, but it just wouldn't be professional to discuss something confidential like this in public. If you'd like to call my office, we can discuss this privately." At least people are just asking you about contracts and statutes, not about superating wounds and bowel movements.
Reply:Decline. It's less of a headache.
Reply:Go if you think you'll enjoy yourself....if you think it will further your career....if you think it's not crossing any professional lines.
You only know the answer to those questions.
Reply:Go to the party. Parties and business should be/ and generally are separated from business. You decline requests for technical and professional reasons, not for person ones. People are smart enough to know that. Christmas is a time for parties and having a good time, in the secular world. In the Church world, the season of Christmas doesn't even start until Christmas Eve; and the two are NOT in conflict with each other. Enjoy your parties. Don't get drunk and give away all the secrets.
Reply:Frankly I see no pro or cons to attend or not to attend. Its a matter of your principled decision. If you negate tactfully for good alibi, your client can't do anything against it, but tell you if the invitation is honest and no string attach, I feel you may miss the rare festive opportunity of knowing more you'll client and their inner circle that is strictly no business talks and may open more deeper rapport and closer clientelle relationships, and maybe your the most requested person to make your company and your client in better hold in the event sour times may come to test.
Much more if their is really no known conflict in schedule, I find no reason you shall choose to let not your company you represent why they not allow you to joint the cordial invitation of your company client...and such support I believe shall be arrange to represent your company to the client...The spirit must be mutual...your choice should not be personal but business like in sense.
Reciprocating the invitation is even more productive if there is no restraint from your company policy and management prerogative. Do you think so?
I f you are not that socially inclined, its time to be learning now.
Reply:stop taking yourself so seriously and go
they probably have only invited you hoping you'll say no again because they expect you to be really boring
so go, enjoy yourself and enjoy the people part of a client/service agency relationship
and don't forget - they are the clients and they pay your bills
Reply:It's fine to go to a Christmas party, and it does not confer any obligation on you except that of a guest ~ to contribute to the general fun of the event.
It's probably better to leave earlier than later (not first, but shortly after the first), and of course not too much to drink, or eat.
Otherwse ~ have a great time!
Chers ;-)
Reply:Why wouldn't you go. Go meet new people, maybe meet up with a girl and start something you never thought you might happen. get out of the house when ever you can! you cant spend your whole life in the office and in your home? wtf GO!!! lol
Reply:You should play it on a case by case basis. Some clients would not be a problem, however, depending on the specifics of the surrounding and possibly on going situations, you don't want to mix fun with those clients.
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If I accept invites and go to their Christmas parties, will I lose my voice? Will I feel obliged?
During the past years also I have declined such invites giving some silly reason.
Received an invite for a Christmas party from a client. Accept or decline?
I have to go to a lot of social functions out of pure obligation. I've attended as many as 4 in one night. If you don't want to go and feel you need to do so, here's what to do. Walk in, get a glass of something to carry, circle the room, smile and say hello to everyone briefly, thank the host and leave. You can work a party in 20 minutes. You've shown up and kept a client and still have the night free.
Reply:Most businesses invite people to Office Christmas Parties because they want to share a social occasion outside of the office environment.
The time is meant to be social and business should not be discussed.
If you go to the party and someone starts talking business - you can say 'yes...let talk about that at the office next week'.
Only accept the invitation if you WANT to socialize with the client contacts you already know or if you would like to meet new contacts. (This is networking)
If you do accept, be sure and go. No shows always look bad.
Reply:Hmm. Are you feeling like you may end up "in their pocket," so to speak, if you accept some hospitality from them? I think that if they have chosen to invite you, and you think it might be fun to go, then go. Bring a bottle of wine, or a box of good chocolates, or something like that, as a host/ess gift. That way, you haven't gotten something for nothing.
Reply:Go to the party, good PR karma. And have a good time. Take a little inexpensive Xmas themed gift to the hostess. You might ask if they have a tree, or if the hostess has some kind of Xmas collection, like snow people or angels.
You can talk about what you do, just cut it off when the questions get too technical, just say, I not allowed to be specific. Talk vague, yeh, I do some technical legal work for...
Come armed with some cute Xmas jokes, or stories.
If you are in doubt,check the employee manual, and if still in doubt, ask a boss if there is any reason you should not go, and mention you were considering it because you thought if would be good PR, and there was nothing in the manual that said not to.
If at the party the customer/host says something that makes you think you are about to be bribed, politely leave. "Oh, gee George, I can't do that, but thanks for inviting me, great party.".
Reply:As a health care professional, I too am often approached for free advice. If it's an easy to answer to question, I respond in a neighborly, helpful way. But if it's at all complex, my response is "I'm sorry, but it just wouldn't be professional to discuss something confidential like this in public. If you'd like to call my office, we can discuss this privately." At least people are just asking you about contracts and statutes, not about superating wounds and bowel movements.
Reply:Decline. It's less of a headache.
Reply:Go if you think you'll enjoy yourself....if you think it will further your career....if you think it's not crossing any professional lines.
You only know the answer to those questions.
Reply:Go to the party. Parties and business should be/ and generally are separated from business. You decline requests for technical and professional reasons, not for person ones. People are smart enough to know that. Christmas is a time for parties and having a good time, in the secular world. In the Church world, the season of Christmas doesn't even start until Christmas Eve; and the two are NOT in conflict with each other. Enjoy your parties. Don't get drunk and give away all the secrets.
Reply:Frankly I see no pro or cons to attend or not to attend. Its a matter of your principled decision. If you negate tactfully for good alibi, your client can't do anything against it, but tell you if the invitation is honest and no string attach, I feel you may miss the rare festive opportunity of knowing more you'll client and their inner circle that is strictly no business talks and may open more deeper rapport and closer clientelle relationships, and maybe your the most requested person to make your company and your client in better hold in the event sour times may come to test.
Much more if their is really no known conflict in schedule, I find no reason you shall choose to let not your company you represent why they not allow you to joint the cordial invitation of your company client...and such support I believe shall be arrange to represent your company to the client...The spirit must be mutual...your choice should not be personal but business like in sense.
Reciprocating the invitation is even more productive if there is no restraint from your company policy and management prerogative. Do you think so?
I f you are not that socially inclined, its time to be learning now.
Reply:stop taking yourself so seriously and go
they probably have only invited you hoping you'll say no again because they expect you to be really boring
so go, enjoy yourself and enjoy the people part of a client/service agency relationship
and don't forget - they are the clients and they pay your bills
Reply:It's fine to go to a Christmas party, and it does not confer any obligation on you except that of a guest ~ to contribute to the general fun of the event.
It's probably better to leave earlier than later (not first, but shortly after the first), and of course not too much to drink, or eat.
Otherwse ~ have a great time!
Chers ;-)
Reply:Why wouldn't you go. Go meet new people, maybe meet up with a girl and start something you never thought you might happen. get out of the house when ever you can! you cant spend your whole life in the office and in your home? wtf GO!!! lol
Reply:You should play it on a case by case basis. Some clients would not be a problem, however, depending on the specifics of the surrounding and possibly on going situations, you don't want to mix fun with those clients.
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My boyfriend has a facebook page that he does not want me to see,How can I get on it to look at without invite?
Need to get on his page without him knowing. Thanks
My boyfriend has a facebook page that he does not want me to see,How can I get on it to look at without invite?
just ask him why he doesnt want you to see
Reply:you know what you could do? i've done this before you could create a fake account with a really Beautiful or slutty looking girl (Which ever he prefers) and send a request to him then once he adds the fake site you can look at what he doesn't want you to see. i've done it at least 4 times it always works until i told him it was me after a while lol he laughed of course if i didn't tell him he would never have known. but yeah the fake account thing works.
Reply:make a fake account and send him a friend request...no guy is going to refuse a girls friend request...make a sexy name and put a hot chic pic on there . u have to be accepted as friend to see his status/ profile and such...
good luck...and hope you dont find out anything bad
Reply:create a fake facebook and send him an invite and if he does not want u to see he is hiding something from u sorry goodluck
Reply:Look at it through his friends. Find a friend (may need to be friend with them) then look in their friend list and click him.
Reply:what a great relationship.
My boyfriend has a facebook page that he does not want me to see,How can I get on it to look at without invite?
just ask him why he doesnt want you to see
Reply:you know what you could do? i've done this before you could create a fake account with a really Beautiful or slutty looking girl (Which ever he prefers) and send a request to him then once he adds the fake site you can look at what he doesn't want you to see. i've done it at least 4 times it always works until i told him it was me after a while lol he laughed of course if i didn't tell him he would never have known. but yeah the fake account thing works.
Reply:make a fake account and send him a friend request...no guy is going to refuse a girls friend request...make a sexy name and put a hot chic pic on there . u have to be accepted as friend to see his status/ profile and such...
good luck...and hope you dont find out anything bad
Reply:create a fake facebook and send him an invite and if he does not want u to see he is hiding something from u sorry goodluck
Reply:Look at it through his friends. Find a friend (may need to be friend with them) then look in their friend list and click him.
Reply:what a great relationship.
Should I invite this friend to my birthday?
My friend, let's call her Rachel, is a good friend of mine. She is going out with my other friend, who is coming to my birthday party. I am afraid that if I invite her, then Rachel and my other friend might be making out a lot of the birthday. Should I invite Jessica?
Should I invite this friend to my birthday?
Yes...and if it bothers you, why don't you just mention it to them that you'd rather if they kept it PG for the party
Reply:YES!!
Reply:Wait, first of all, who the hell is Jessica? Second of all, it's your desicion.
Reply:how rude is that,love is just a thing that happens ,dont try to restrict!
Reply:Invite her, but if they start getting all passionate tell them to get a room.
Reply:yes, if you don't invite her, then she might be mad at you, and no one wants that. Invite her, and if they do start making out, then you could always kick them out!
Reply:I would say yes invite both friends. Tell them not to do anything that you don't approve of or they will have to leave. If they are really your friends they should not want to spoil your party. Happy Birthday.
Reply:If you have a go friend you won't have worry about soyou need to make up you minewhat you are going to you no what's best!!!
Reply:Ask yourself this, would you rather have "Rachel's" company and put up with their making out, or would you rather spend the time without her?
Reply:it's your choice. if you don't want them to make out don't tell them about this party
Reply:yeah shes ur friend just k eep everyone busy then they would have time 2 makeout
Reply:yeah probably
Reply:Yes, u should in vite them but tell them if they wanna make
out they'll have to do it somewhere else
Should I invite this friend to my birthday?
Yes...and if it bothers you, why don't you just mention it to them that you'd rather if they kept it PG for the party
Reply:YES!!
Reply:Wait, first of all, who the hell is Jessica? Second of all, it's your desicion.
Reply:how rude is that,love is just a thing that happens ,dont try to restrict!
Reply:Invite her, but if they start getting all passionate tell them to get a room.
Reply:yes, if you don't invite her, then she might be mad at you, and no one wants that. Invite her, and if they do start making out, then you could always kick them out!
Reply:I would say yes invite both friends. Tell them not to do anything that you don't approve of or they will have to leave. If they are really your friends they should not want to spoil your party. Happy Birthday.
Reply:If you have a go friend you won't have worry about soyou need to make up you minewhat you are going to you no what's best!!!
Reply:Ask yourself this, would you rather have "Rachel's" company and put up with their making out, or would you rather spend the time without her?
Reply:it's your choice. if you don't want them to make out don't tell them about this party
Reply:yeah shes ur friend just k eep everyone busy then they would have time 2 makeout
Reply:yeah probably
Reply:Yes, u should in vite them but tell them if they wanna make
out they'll have to do it somewhere else
I dont have any female relatives except for my mother so who would i invite?
i'm 23 and i'm just wondering who would i invite to be a bridemaids except for my mother? I have no relatives
I dont have any female relatives except for my mother so who would i invite?
what about friends? if you're close to your mom then ask her to be your moh! choose carefully though~ don't just choose girls because you feel like you need to fill positions in a bridal party. does your future hubby have any close female relatives or friends? have you thought about having guys as your mohs. you can also skip the bridal party and just honor certain people with toasts at your reception.
Reply:I personally wouldn't worry much about it, it will cost less with one bridesmaid, that is all I have, one best man, a ring bearer and a flower girl.
If you want more than one bridesmaid, close friends, co-workers. Remember that some of them may turn you down because they may not have an extra $80-150 to pay for the dress. I am having a very small wedding with 70 guests.
Reply:Girlfriends....your upcoming sisters-in-law....a co-worker you're close friends with....
Anyone close enough to you to be invifted to your bridal shower, then they're close enough to consider as bridesmaids, maid of honor.
Reply:any friends or if your absolutely desperate ask some femal co-workers or just have your mom be your matron of honor and no bridesmaids, that would be more special than having bridesmaids that you arent close to.
Reply:You don't have to ask family...what about close girl friends? A close co-worker?
Reply:only option is his side of the family %26amp; friends
I dont have any female relatives except for my mother so who would i invite?
what about friends? if you're close to your mom then ask her to be your moh! choose carefully though~ don't just choose girls because you feel like you need to fill positions in a bridal party. does your future hubby have any close female relatives or friends? have you thought about having guys as your mohs. you can also skip the bridal party and just honor certain people with toasts at your reception.
Reply:I personally wouldn't worry much about it, it will cost less with one bridesmaid, that is all I have, one best man, a ring bearer and a flower girl.
If you want more than one bridesmaid, close friends, co-workers. Remember that some of them may turn you down because they may not have an extra $80-150 to pay for the dress. I am having a very small wedding with 70 guests.
Reply:Girlfriends....your upcoming sisters-in-law....a co-worker you're close friends with....
Anyone close enough to you to be invifted to your bridal shower, then they're close enough to consider as bridesmaids, maid of honor.
Reply:any friends or if your absolutely desperate ask some femal co-workers or just have your mom be your matron of honor and no bridesmaids, that would be more special than having bridesmaids that you arent close to.
Reply:You don't have to ask family...what about close girl friends? A close co-worker?
Reply:only option is his side of the family %26amp; friends
Friend sent me a myspace invite to a party but i cant find the invite now?
i dont know when the party is and cant find the invite now because i was unable to accept it for some reason.
this is an old friend and we just ran into eachother...
i dont have her number and the party is tomorrow:/
why cant i find the invite?
how can i find it?
i can only see new invites that i havent opened:/
please help!
thanks:)
Friend sent me a myspace invite to a party but i cant find the invite now?
Best thing to do is think hard %26gt;_%26lt;
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this is an old friend and we just ran into eachother...
i dont have her number and the party is tomorrow:/
why cant i find the invite?
how can i find it?
i can only see new invites that i havent opened:/
please help!
thanks:)
Friend sent me a myspace invite to a party but i cant find the invite now?
Best thing to do is think hard %26gt;_%26lt;
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Wedding Invite RSVP's: Do i print my address on the RSVP envelope for the guest? Or leave it blank?
I am in the middle of planning my wedding, and i am moving onto the next task: addressing the invitations.
My question is...for the rsvp envelopes that guests will be sending back to us, do i write out my address onto the rsvp envelope for the guest or leave it blank?
I ask for the sake of proper wedding etiquette. Or does it not really matter? (i actually hope it doesn't really matter for the sake of saving me all that handwriting!)
Wedding Invite RSVP's: Do i print my address on the RSVP envelope for the guest? Or leave it blank?
yeah, you address it and put a stamp on it.
(that was my job for the wedding)
I made address labels on the computer though. My wife okayed them first of course! The stamp thing pissed me off. That many stamps werent cheap!! But my wife told me it was the proper thing to do.
Reply:If you don't stamp and address the envelope, you're not going to get a good portion of them back.
If I got an unaddressed, unstamped envelope, you'd be lucky to get an e-mail or phone call. Most people don't have your address committed to memory, so that inconveniences them more than it will you printing it on there for them.
If you're really anti- writing it yourself, get a pack of labels and use your computer to make address labels and smack them on your RSVP envelopes.
Reply:The proper ediquette is addressing the RSVP envelopes and putting a stamp on them. What I was planning on doing is ordering a bunch of address labels from a website with our current names on it and sticking those to the envelopes. You can also print them on the home computer. Writing them is also accepted.
Also include a stamp. Use the forever stamps that you can get from the postoffice.
Reply:We actually put each person's name on the RSVP card instead of the usual M______. We also printed out address labels with our address on them to put on the return envelope with the stamps. (You can buy these from Office max, Staples, etc. and it will be helpful) Everybody loved it. They all thought that it was very thoughtful.
Reply:Definitely put your address on the envelopes. You don't have to write it all out by hand though. Just get clear mailing labels from an office supply store and print the labels on your computer. Make sure to use a simple un-fancy font, so the post office can read them!
Reply:Yes, you will address (%26amp; stamp) the RSVP envelopes with the return address. According to etiquette, the RSVP's should go to the host - so if your parents are paying for the wedding they go to them, if you %26amp; your FI are paying, they come back to you.
Reply:Of course. How are they going to know where to send it? Not everyone knows where you live such as the groom's family and friends and sometimes invites get sent back to the bride, groom, bride's parents etc. Make it easy on them.
Reply:you address and stamp
return address you can use your again just incase
Reply:Yes, you address the envelope as well as put postage on it. I know, it's time consuming but a must!
Reply:Yes you would put the return address on reply.
thanks
Dawn
goodtimeinvitations.cceasy.com
My question is...for the rsvp envelopes that guests will be sending back to us, do i write out my address onto the rsvp envelope for the guest or leave it blank?
I ask for the sake of proper wedding etiquette. Or does it not really matter? (i actually hope it doesn't really matter for the sake of saving me all that handwriting!)
Wedding Invite RSVP's: Do i print my address on the RSVP envelope for the guest? Or leave it blank?
yeah, you address it and put a stamp on it.
(that was my job for the wedding)
I made address labels on the computer though. My wife okayed them first of course! The stamp thing pissed me off. That many stamps werent cheap!! But my wife told me it was the proper thing to do.
Reply:If you don't stamp and address the envelope, you're not going to get a good portion of them back.
If I got an unaddressed, unstamped envelope, you'd be lucky to get an e-mail or phone call. Most people don't have your address committed to memory, so that inconveniences them more than it will you printing it on there for them.
If you're really anti- writing it yourself, get a pack of labels and use your computer to make address labels and smack them on your RSVP envelopes.
Reply:The proper ediquette is addressing the RSVP envelopes and putting a stamp on them. What I was planning on doing is ordering a bunch of address labels from a website with our current names on it and sticking those to the envelopes. You can also print them on the home computer. Writing them is also accepted.
Also include a stamp. Use the forever stamps that you can get from the postoffice.
Reply:We actually put each person's name on the RSVP card instead of the usual M______. We also printed out address labels with our address on them to put on the return envelope with the stamps. (You can buy these from Office max, Staples, etc. and it will be helpful) Everybody loved it. They all thought that it was very thoughtful.
Reply:Definitely put your address on the envelopes. You don't have to write it all out by hand though. Just get clear mailing labels from an office supply store and print the labels on your computer. Make sure to use a simple un-fancy font, so the post office can read them!
Reply:Yes, you will address (%26amp; stamp) the RSVP envelopes with the return address. According to etiquette, the RSVP's should go to the host - so if your parents are paying for the wedding they go to them, if you %26amp; your FI are paying, they come back to you.
Reply:Of course. How are they going to know where to send it? Not everyone knows where you live such as the groom's family and friends and sometimes invites get sent back to the bride, groom, bride's parents etc. Make it easy on them.
Reply:you address and stamp
return address you can use your again just incase
Reply:Yes, you address the envelope as well as put postage on it. I know, it's time consuming but a must!
Reply:Yes you would put the return address on reply.
thanks
Dawn
goodtimeinvitations.cceasy.com
Does any one have any torrent site invite codes to share?
Does anyone have invite codes for torrentleech.org or scenetorrents? I will trade invites to GTI and or Demonoid.com
Does any one have any torrent site invite codes to share?
Use uTorrent instead, it's free.
Reply:no sorry try minnova.com
sorry if i wan'st such a good help
Does any one have any torrent site invite codes to share?
Use uTorrent instead, it's free.
Reply:no sorry try minnova.com
sorry if i wan'st such a good help
Can a female wear pants with a nice top to a wedding when the invite says formal?
or does it have to be a long ball gown type of dress
Can a female wear pants with a nice top to a wedding when the invite says formal?
of course pants are ok. just pair it with a nice, fancy top and thats very dressy. women def. arent expected to wear dresses anymore. i personally think they look too over the top most of the time. wear black pants with a dressy top and dressy shoes and youll look great!
Reply:no.... formal is formal. long gown or equisite short dress......
Reply:No you can't wear pants and top to a formal wedding. You can wear an elegant black dress!
Reply:No, what! Are you stupid. Formal doesn't mean wear shorts and a shirt. If you don't know the difference, don't go to the wedding.
Reply:formal is long ball gown, sorry pants and a nice top is inappropriate if invite says formal.
Reply:Pants? An invite to a wedding which clearly says that the wedding is formal. Right.
Buy a nice dress. Better than a 'nice top'. It should not be a long "ball gown" type of dress. You don't want to compete with the bride.
Reply:You can get away with black pants, and the cutest formal top. People even think only dark colors are formal. My sister wore a strapless denim dress to a formal wedding and rocked it with accesories!
Reply:It's okay as long as the pants are suit like pants, and the top is a dressy top, and the shoes are the right flats, heels.
Reply:I think you can as long as your not participating but just to be sure you should ask the bride.
Reply:yes that is formal too some
Reply:Generally, for a formal wedding, I think women are expected to wear a very chic dress. BUT.....
I think a pair of tailored tuxedo pants and jacket with a camisole type blouse, some BANGING strappy heels and minimal yet BLINGING jewels (stud earrings, simple necklace, wrist bangle and clutch) would do just fine.
You need to consider the couple for the wedding you are attending. If they are old school and WASPy.....stick with a dress/gown. If they are cutting edge/nuovo riche? Go for the pants...and throw in a bit of color in (a ring or pin).
Either way, keep it simple, classic and stylish.
Reply:Pants are out when it says formal.You don't need to wear a long ball gown type of dress.
Reply:no!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:I don't think so. Where an ankle length skirt and a fancy top.
Reply:Of course. Make it nice and classic.
Reply:dress slacks, a nice blouse, panty hose or knee highs, and a pair of low heels is acceptable. Dress it up with accessories. Wear makeup and jewlery to really make it shine. A ball gown is not necessary, but I would consider a nice dress if possible instead of slacks. You can pull slacks off if you dress it up with a really frilly blouse.
Reply:NO!
Reply:I say yes.
Reply:defiantly not! .... it doesn't have to be a ball gown.. leave that to the bride, but not pants, a nice dress a little longer than cocktail length should be fine
Reply:You don't have to wear a long gown unless your the bride. otherwise, i think nice white, black, or gray pants would be absolutely fine. Hope i helped! =]
Reply:No! Men shouldn't do it either. There's always the one or two goofs who come to a wedding in jeans and gym shoes or something like that. It's like they're trying to prove something to someone. To me they just prove that they're unable to show enough respect for the bride and groom by dressing the way that was requested.
Reply:NO-unless the female is more male like and she/he usually wears pants- you might try a girly pant suit but no dark colors! good luck have fun at the wedding
Reply:only if you want to offend the people who invited you
Reply:Formal usually means the same as Black Tie, but in some trendier cities like New York or Los Angeles, it could mean a black shirt, no tie with a tux. Women wear cocktail, long dresses or dressy evening separates. so no pants
Reply:If you are not in the wedding then you should be fine. But you have to look elegant. Your outfit shouldn't stand out too much. I suggest some cream slacks and a nice top. No denim or odd material. I hate wearing dresses myself, so a nice pair slacks and some killer shoes would be suffice.
Reply:NO DONT DO IT. if the invite says formal GO FORMAL
Reply:probably not..
unless they're really nice dress pants and a really really nice shirt..
but otherwise no!!
Reply:a dress would be best. not necessarily a full length gown. but you can get some snazzy trouser suits that would be considered formal. I have a very glam 3 pc outfit that I would wear to a formal wedding if that's what I felt like wearing. one must be comfortable as well.
Reply:No pants
Daytime wedding a nice cocktail dress
Nighttime wedding a bit more on the dress...nothing overboard, just classic...Perhaps a ankle length gray dress, simple, yet elegant...You really want to try to stay classic in whatever you wear - something you can wear again.
Reply:Yes, but it must be in good taste and the outfit must be very dressy.
Reply:I once saw the mother-of-the-bride wear pants. But they looked so much like a long skirt that you had to look twice to see that they were actually wide-legged pants. The material was a beautiful, sparkly silver-color. Classy!
Can a female wear pants with a nice top to a wedding when the invite says formal?
of course pants are ok. just pair it with a nice, fancy top and thats very dressy. women def. arent expected to wear dresses anymore. i personally think they look too over the top most of the time. wear black pants with a dressy top and dressy shoes and youll look great!
Reply:no.... formal is formal. long gown or equisite short dress......
Reply:No you can't wear pants and top to a formal wedding. You can wear an elegant black dress!
Reply:No, what! Are you stupid. Formal doesn't mean wear shorts and a shirt. If you don't know the difference, don't go to the wedding.
Reply:formal is long ball gown, sorry pants and a nice top is inappropriate if invite says formal.
Reply:Pants? An invite to a wedding which clearly says that the wedding is formal. Right.
Buy a nice dress. Better than a 'nice top'. It should not be a long "ball gown" type of dress. You don't want to compete with the bride.
Reply:You can get away with black pants, and the cutest formal top. People even think only dark colors are formal. My sister wore a strapless denim dress to a formal wedding and rocked it with accesories!
Reply:It's okay as long as the pants are suit like pants, and the top is a dressy top, and the shoes are the right flats, heels.
Reply:I think you can as long as your not participating but just to be sure you should ask the bride.
Reply:yes that is formal too some
Reply:Generally, for a formal wedding, I think women are expected to wear a very chic dress. BUT.....
I think a pair of tailored tuxedo pants and jacket with a camisole type blouse, some BANGING strappy heels and minimal yet BLINGING jewels (stud earrings, simple necklace, wrist bangle and clutch) would do just fine.
You need to consider the couple for the wedding you are attending. If they are old school and WASPy.....stick with a dress/gown. If they are cutting edge/nuovo riche? Go for the pants...and throw in a bit of color in (a ring or pin).
Either way, keep it simple, classic and stylish.
Reply:Pants are out when it says formal.You don't need to wear a long ball gown type of dress.
Reply:no!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:I don't think so. Where an ankle length skirt and a fancy top.
Reply:Of course. Make it nice and classic.
Reply:dress slacks, a nice blouse, panty hose or knee highs, and a pair of low heels is acceptable. Dress it up with accessories. Wear makeup and jewlery to really make it shine. A ball gown is not necessary, but I would consider a nice dress if possible instead of slacks. You can pull slacks off if you dress it up with a really frilly blouse.
Reply:NO!
Reply:I say yes.
Reply:defiantly not! .... it doesn't have to be a ball gown.. leave that to the bride, but not pants, a nice dress a little longer than cocktail length should be fine
Reply:You don't have to wear a long gown unless your the bride. otherwise, i think nice white, black, or gray pants would be absolutely fine. Hope i helped! =]
Reply:No! Men shouldn't do it either. There's always the one or two goofs who come to a wedding in jeans and gym shoes or something like that. It's like they're trying to prove something to someone. To me they just prove that they're unable to show enough respect for the bride and groom by dressing the way that was requested.
Reply:NO-unless the female is more male like and she/he usually wears pants- you might try a girly pant suit but no dark colors! good luck have fun at the wedding
Reply:only if you want to offend the people who invited you
Reply:Formal usually means the same as Black Tie, but in some trendier cities like New York or Los Angeles, it could mean a black shirt, no tie with a tux. Women wear cocktail, long dresses or dressy evening separates. so no pants
Reply:If you are not in the wedding then you should be fine. But you have to look elegant. Your outfit shouldn't stand out too much. I suggest some cream slacks and a nice top. No denim or odd material. I hate wearing dresses myself, so a nice pair slacks and some killer shoes would be suffice.
Reply:NO DONT DO IT. if the invite says formal GO FORMAL
Reply:probably not..
unless they're really nice dress pants and a really really nice shirt..
but otherwise no!!
Reply:a dress would be best. not necessarily a full length gown. but you can get some snazzy trouser suits that would be considered formal. I have a very glam 3 pc outfit that I would wear to a formal wedding if that's what I felt like wearing. one must be comfortable as well.
Reply:No pants
Daytime wedding a nice cocktail dress
Nighttime wedding a bit more on the dress...nothing overboard, just classic...Perhaps a ankle length gray dress, simple, yet elegant...You really want to try to stay classic in whatever you wear - something you can wear again.
Reply:Yes, but it must be in good taste and the outfit must be very dressy.
Reply:I once saw the mother-of-the-bride wear pants. But they looked so much like a long skirt that you had to look twice to see that they were actually wide-legged pants. The material was a beautiful, sparkly silver-color. Classy!
I dont go to drinking partys. lots of my friends do but they never invite. wat should i do im pretty shy?
I wonder how old you are? When my oldest daughter started high school all of a sudden she seemed to have no more friends, they had all started drinking and she didn't want to go with them when they did. She had a touch Freshman year but midway through her Sophomore year she fell in with a great group and they have become lifelong friends, the whole group. She is now 23 and everything turned out just fine. She stayed true to herself. Of course they have great fun going to the bars now.
Just stick with your way and the rest will fall into place.
Be friendly, look people in the eye and smile. You'll find friends that you fit with and they you.
I dont go to drinking partys. lots of my friends do but they never invite. wat should i do im pretty shy?
Hi.
So in other words you want to look "cool and all that..." be very carefull, if you knew what went on in those drinking partys you will be glad that you never went.
Ask yourself, do you really want to be there?
whatever you decide, remember "YOU" only made the choice.
Ruby.
Reply:Good for you. You should not have to be tempted by going to drinking parties.
Do you have some friends who don't drink? What do they do? Going to the movies is cheaper than drinking parties anyway (if you skip the popcorn).
You don't mention your age. If you are in college or HS, you can join a club or group that encourages activities that are non-drinking and you could get a couple new friends.
Reply:If you do not drink and you stll want to hang with these people offer to be there driver. Take your own car so that at the end of the party they can not argue with you or say I changed my mind I am not drunk I will drive. All drunks think they are not drunk.
Reply:Crash the parties, just bring plenty of beer and they will let you right in. but make sure that you have a little stash of your own so you won't run out. maybe stash a cooler in the bushes and when the party drinks are gone you can secretly slip out in the back yard and retrieve it
You won't be shy for long.
Reply:why are shy at the first place? be yourself
Reply:just be herself. I am sure you are not shy all the time. I am sure that you also have a few close friends. i would go with a good friend. If you don't drink you can just have juice that's fine. or maybe try to bring non alcoholic drinks. like virgin pina colada's or daquiri's. that will be a hit.
Reply:maybe the reason they don't invite you is because you don't drink? are you saying you want to get invited? then why don't you arrange for your and your close friends to drink by your place. get a small bottle of scotch or rum of vodka and get a bottle of coke or sprite. if they doin't invite you then incite them! if you're a first time drinker, then this is the best idea so that if you DO get druink, at least you know you'll be with your close friends and that you're a home.
if you don't wanna do that then the next time they tell you how it was in the last drinking party that they went to, ask them how it was and that you're very curious on what happens then maybe they'll ask you to tag along to their next one!
Reply:well to answer your question if your friends dont invite. thats sad. but thats good that you want to do your own. ok. first make sure that when you invite your house is really decorated and clean. then for drinking i would select a good wine or a good margarita drink. if you have a blender, its best to make your own. for the glasses, use nice clean ones and have lemons around make sure that the glasses have salt around the edge for an extra taste. and leave the rest to conversation starters.
Reply:If you aren't invited, nothing you can do. If you aren't 21, be glad you aren't invited. You'd get in trouble sooner or later. Make some more respectable friends. Get involved with church activities, you'll meet lots of decent people there who will draw you out.
Getting over shyness is done in baby steps. Make it a point today to look one person in the eye and smile. Once you're comfortable with that, try saying "Hi!" to people you encounter. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
Find activities you like. Take a craft class, join a book club, whatever interests you. You don't have to feel awkward then, cause you'll have at least one thing in common with all the people there, so you'll have something to talk about! Good luck!
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Just stick with your way and the rest will fall into place.
Be friendly, look people in the eye and smile. You'll find friends that you fit with and they you.
I dont go to drinking partys. lots of my friends do but they never invite. wat should i do im pretty shy?
Hi.
So in other words you want to look "cool and all that..." be very carefull, if you knew what went on in those drinking partys you will be glad that you never went.
Ask yourself, do you really want to be there?
whatever you decide, remember "YOU" only made the choice.
Ruby.
Reply:Good for you. You should not have to be tempted by going to drinking parties.
Do you have some friends who don't drink? What do they do? Going to the movies is cheaper than drinking parties anyway (if you skip the popcorn).
You don't mention your age. If you are in college or HS, you can join a club or group that encourages activities that are non-drinking and you could get a couple new friends.
Reply:If you do not drink and you stll want to hang with these people offer to be there driver. Take your own car so that at the end of the party they can not argue with you or say I changed my mind I am not drunk I will drive. All drunks think they are not drunk.
Reply:Crash the parties, just bring plenty of beer and they will let you right in. but make sure that you have a little stash of your own so you won't run out. maybe stash a cooler in the bushes and when the party drinks are gone you can secretly slip out in the back yard and retrieve it
You won't be shy for long.
Reply:why are shy at the first place? be yourself
Reply:just be herself. I am sure you are not shy all the time. I am sure that you also have a few close friends. i would go with a good friend. If you don't drink you can just have juice that's fine. or maybe try to bring non alcoholic drinks. like virgin pina colada's or daquiri's. that will be a hit.
Reply:maybe the reason they don't invite you is because you don't drink? are you saying you want to get invited? then why don't you arrange for your and your close friends to drink by your place. get a small bottle of scotch or rum of vodka and get a bottle of coke or sprite. if they doin't invite you then incite them! if you're a first time drinker, then this is the best idea so that if you DO get druink, at least you know you'll be with your close friends and that you're a home.
if you don't wanna do that then the next time they tell you how it was in the last drinking party that they went to, ask them how it was and that you're very curious on what happens then maybe they'll ask you to tag along to their next one!
Reply:well to answer your question if your friends dont invite. thats sad. but thats good that you want to do your own. ok. first make sure that when you invite your house is really decorated and clean. then for drinking i would select a good wine or a good margarita drink. if you have a blender, its best to make your own. for the glasses, use nice clean ones and have lemons around make sure that the glasses have salt around the edge for an extra taste. and leave the rest to conversation starters.
Reply:If you aren't invited, nothing you can do. If you aren't 21, be glad you aren't invited. You'd get in trouble sooner or later. Make some more respectable friends. Get involved with church activities, you'll meet lots of decent people there who will draw you out.
Getting over shyness is done in baby steps. Make it a point today to look one person in the eye and smile. Once you're comfortable with that, try saying "Hi!" to people you encounter. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
Find activities you like. Take a craft class, join a book club, whatever interests you. You don't have to feel awkward then, cause you'll have at least one thing in common with all the people there, so you'll have something to talk about! Good luck!
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What is a polite way to not invite someone to a wedding?
My future husband and I met at a very young age, and hung out with the same group of people every day. When we got together all but one were very much in support of our relationship. She was one of my very best friends, and hated the fact that my fiance and I had gotten together, so much so she would kick me (and only me) out of her house, or try to get him alone to say terrible things about me. She lied to him, and a lot of our friends in an attempt to ruin the relationship.
For this and several other reasons we have distanced ourselves from this person.
Honey and I have both decided we don't want her at the wedding or reception, for the same reasons we have distance ourselves from her.
She is not the kind of person that can just sit back and take something, so I know when she hears about the wedding she will try anything to get an invite.
Could someone help me out with a POLITE way to say no. I am not trying to spite her, or hurt her in any way.
What is a polite way to not invite someone to a wedding?
It sounds like she has been very mean to you and your fiance. I don't think you need any secret tactics or super plan to not invite her to your wedding. Just don't send her an invitation and if she asks you have plenty reasons to back up your decision. You just have to hold your ground. It doesn't sound like she's a friend, and she shouldn't be apart of your life. She's a trouble maker.
Reply:a long distance away such as at nassau in the behamas
Reply:First of all, don't send her an invitation. If she has the nerve to ask why she wasn't invited, you could either be honest and say that you don't want her there because she wasn't supportive of your relationship, or you could say something like "We're having a small wedding." Good luck!
For this and several other reasons we have distanced ourselves from this person.
Honey and I have both decided we don't want her at the wedding or reception, for the same reasons we have distance ourselves from her.
She is not the kind of person that can just sit back and take something, so I know when she hears about the wedding she will try anything to get an invite.
Could someone help me out with a POLITE way to say no. I am not trying to spite her, or hurt her in any way.
What is a polite way to not invite someone to a wedding?
It sounds like she has been very mean to you and your fiance. I don't think you need any secret tactics or super plan to not invite her to your wedding. Just don't send her an invitation and if she asks you have plenty reasons to back up your decision. You just have to hold your ground. It doesn't sound like she's a friend, and she shouldn't be apart of your life. She's a trouble maker.
Reply:a long distance away such as at nassau in the behamas
Reply:First of all, don't send her an invitation. If she has the nerve to ask why she wasn't invited, you could either be honest and say that you don't want her there because she wasn't supportive of your relationship, or you could say something like "We're having a small wedding." Good luck!
Where can i get email addresses to invite to join my group?
I sent invites to the few people i know and a few people off another group I'm on that have posts related to what my new group is for. Speaking of, my group is for adopting pets FREE!!
Where can i get email addresses to invite to join my group?
There are Yahoo groups designed specifically for owners to promote their groups. Here is a link to one that is very good and has over 6000 members.http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/Group...
Reply:heres one poopiscooc_900@yahoo.co.uk
Where can i get email addresses to invite to join my group?
There are Yahoo groups designed specifically for owners to promote their groups. Here is a link to one that is very good and has over 6000 members.http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/Group...
Reply:heres one poopiscooc_900@yahoo.co.uk
Is it impolite or tacky to un-invite the kids?
I invited a family to a holiday party I have planned. The mother, father, and their two young children have RSVP'd yes. The only problem is that we have now run out of space at the party location to accommodate all the guests AND their children (there are another 2 families which may or may not be bringing their children).
Is it impolite to un-invite the children, but keep the parents? How do I do it?
Is it impolite or tacky to un-invite the kids?
It is TOTALLY impolite and tacky to uninvite the kids. I would be very offended if I was their mother and I would not go to the party. Do whatever you need to do to keep everyone; even if you had to change the location.
Reply:Yes it is very impolite! That may hurt their feelings. The best way to plan a party is to make sure there is enough space in the first place and not tell everyone about it! If worse comes to worse you ran out of room, Um I would maybe send out a postpone invitation for a separate time of those who couldnt come to the party, maybe have another one for them and send a gift to them with an apology letter.
Reply:you can also let them know that it's turning out to be an adult party and most people won't be bringing their kids along, so it might not be fun for the kids. having said that, i would offer to pay for child care for them, since that would let them know they were still welcome at the party.
Reply:its rather tacky to call 2 days before the party and say "oh, by the way, the kids cant come" but if you call them a few weeks in advance and tell them politely and apologetically, that there may not be enough room for the kids, they should take it fairly well.
Reply:Very impolite to uninvite the children. The best you could do at this point is to schedule a separate "children's party" for them, with adequate supervision, if you want to have an adults only party.
Reply: Whats more important, offending someone or having a nice time? i say ditch the kids they are to loud and often offend.
Reply:you dont have to, just say that Michael Jackson will be there and theyll get the hint
Is it impolite to un-invite the children, but keep the parents? How do I do it?
Is it impolite or tacky to un-invite the kids?
It is TOTALLY impolite and tacky to uninvite the kids. I would be very offended if I was their mother and I would not go to the party. Do whatever you need to do to keep everyone; even if you had to change the location.
Reply:Yes it is very impolite! That may hurt their feelings. The best way to plan a party is to make sure there is enough space in the first place and not tell everyone about it! If worse comes to worse you ran out of room, Um I would maybe send out a postpone invitation for a separate time of those who couldnt come to the party, maybe have another one for them and send a gift to them with an apology letter.
Reply:you can also let them know that it's turning out to be an adult party and most people won't be bringing their kids along, so it might not be fun for the kids. having said that, i would offer to pay for child care for them, since that would let them know they were still welcome at the party.
Reply:its rather tacky to call 2 days before the party and say "oh, by the way, the kids cant come" but if you call them a few weeks in advance and tell them politely and apologetically, that there may not be enough room for the kids, they should take it fairly well.
Reply:Very impolite to uninvite the children. The best you could do at this point is to schedule a separate "children's party" for them, with adequate supervision, if you want to have an adults only party.
Reply: Whats more important, offending someone or having a nice time? i say ditch the kids they are to loud and often offend.
Reply:you dont have to, just say that Michael Jackson will be there and theyll get the hint
I Invite the media to grow a pair, and if you can't I'll lend you mine?
what does the sentence mean? amy pohler said this on snl but i assume it's something the polititican had said on the week but no idea to what this reference. anyone explain this to me please?
I Invite the media to grow a pair, and if you can't I'll lend you mine?
It equates that the media has given the Palin-McCain ticket a free ride on many deceptions obvious to the public. Its amazing how blatant some of the campaign ads are lies that can easily be debunked by Google, or simple research. Yet they are not held up to scrutiny.
Reply:a pair of balls because that's what it going to take to elect obama to become the first black president of the united states of america
and also grow a pair of glasses to see past the lies and the fears that the republicans have been trying to feed us through the media and the lies that mccain is the maverick and will change from his party if that was true he would have ran on an independent platform
i could go on and on
Reply:clinton has balls (referring to mens pairs of testicles in the scrotum)
it also means she can take out her testicles and show them to people even lend them! they're just stereotyping clinton as a tomboy that's all
Reply:A pair of breasts!
The whole spoof was about sexism in the way Palin and Clinton were handled by the media during this election.
Reply:Grow a pair of 'balls'! Stand up against Obama instead of sugar coating him.
Reply:grow a pair of balls.
Reply:She is stating that Hillary Clinton has balls, but the press doesn't.
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I Invite the media to grow a pair, and if you can't I'll lend you mine?
It equates that the media has given the Palin-McCain ticket a free ride on many deceptions obvious to the public. Its amazing how blatant some of the campaign ads are lies that can easily be debunked by Google, or simple research. Yet they are not held up to scrutiny.
Reply:a pair of balls because that's what it going to take to elect obama to become the first black president of the united states of america
and also grow a pair of glasses to see past the lies and the fears that the republicans have been trying to feed us through the media and the lies that mccain is the maverick and will change from his party if that was true he would have ran on an independent platform
i could go on and on
Reply:clinton has balls (referring to mens pairs of testicles in the scrotum)
it also means she can take out her testicles and show them to people even lend them! they're just stereotyping clinton as a tomboy that's all
Reply:A pair of breasts!
The whole spoof was about sexism in the way Palin and Clinton were handled by the media during this election.
Reply:Grow a pair of 'balls'! Stand up against Obama instead of sugar coating him.
Reply:grow a pair of balls.
Reply:She is stating that Hillary Clinton has balls, but the press doesn't.
scientific name
How do I choose which friends to invite?
I have 4 tickets to the Kids Choice Awards this year, but I have a big group of best friends and I'm no closer to any one than the rest of the group. They all want to come with me, so how do I decide which get to come? Should I just draw names from a hat?
How do I choose which friends to invite?
Why don't you write all names in a paper and pick a paper randomly. Or play paper scissor rock.
Reply:You should just pick the friend's that your closer to.
But as you say you have a lot of friends so it may be hard
but think about these things questions:
*Who makes you laugh
*Who are you always happy with
*Who gives the best gifts (lol.)
*Who takes you to places
ask those questions to yourself.
%26amp;hopefully you will figure out who to invite.
Hope i helped(=
Reply:well you definately wanna be fair i mean who wouldnt want the opportunity to go to the KCA with a gorgeous girl and yeah drawing names out of a hat would be good, but make sure ALL the friends you were going to invite are present for the drawing otherwise they could think you were lying
Reply:If your groups of friends are mature they won't get pissed if they aren't picked. Pick friends where it fits their schedule, their most fun to be around, and pick the friends who are MOST interested.
If you must, use the draw names out of a hat.
Reply:best way is to sit your Friends down put the yr names in a hat and let someone else draw the names out that makes it fare all round and if the yr names don't come out they cant blame you for you didn't draw the hat good luck
Reply:well, i think you should choose the friends that you think you will have the most fun with, and the friends that would cause the least amount of drama. if it comes to the worst, just draw names out of a hat.
Reply:Depends How Many BFFS you have ..
If you have say 6 You could Give four and then all of you pitch in for two more tickets ...
If that makes scence ..
Other than that , The Hat idea is pretty good :]
Probably the best
That way no grudges .
Reply:say all of your friends that you've got 4 tickets. Then they'll know the situation you are in. Let the friends decide who is coming with you...
Then you are out of trouble.
Reply:Well drawing names from the hat is the best thing and easist u dont have to choose which one u will like better and all that they might be upset but theyll be more upset if u just choose like that
Reply:Yes - or some other process totally at random. Let everyone know that you weren't playing favorites.
Reply:um no... u should just have them pic which on should go and if no one does u should say this( ok if yall aint going to help me then u must not be my friends and start to cry cuz crying allways helps)
Reply:you should definitely draw names. That would keep it fair. And have each person write his/her name his/herself so there wont be any accusations.
Reply:aSk them the reas0n wHy did they
like t0o come with y0u .. :D
Reply:yeah just let them know you don't know how to pick so you are gonna pick randomly
Reply:That's most fair I guess, HAVE FUN!!!!!! Enjoy it, I wish I was able to go.. :D
Reply:yes, straws, hat.... make it into a game so nobody feels bad about it and you get some fun out of it
have fun
cheers
Reply:Inie Minie Miny Moe in your head.
Reply:pick the ones with the most money.
Reply:well i say u invite ur really really close friends and then draw names out of a hat.
Reply:sounds good, but you should sheat and let me go with you!!!
Reply:umm. take me. im ur best friend in the whole wide world!
Reply:the ones that u talk to the most...
How do I choose which friends to invite?
Why don't you write all names in a paper and pick a paper randomly. Or play paper scissor rock.
Reply:You should just pick the friend's that your closer to.
But as you say you have a lot of friends so it may be hard
but think about these things questions:
*Who makes you laugh
*Who are you always happy with
*Who gives the best gifts (lol.)
*Who takes you to places
ask those questions to yourself.
%26amp;hopefully you will figure out who to invite.
Hope i helped(=
Reply:well you definately wanna be fair i mean who wouldnt want the opportunity to go to the KCA with a gorgeous girl and yeah drawing names out of a hat would be good, but make sure ALL the friends you were going to invite are present for the drawing otherwise they could think you were lying
Reply:If your groups of friends are mature they won't get pissed if they aren't picked. Pick friends where it fits their schedule, their most fun to be around, and pick the friends who are MOST interested.
If you must, use the draw names out of a hat.
Reply:best way is to sit your Friends down put the yr names in a hat and let someone else draw the names out that makes it fare all round and if the yr names don't come out they cant blame you for you didn't draw the hat good luck
Reply:well, i think you should choose the friends that you think you will have the most fun with, and the friends that would cause the least amount of drama. if it comes to the worst, just draw names out of a hat.
Reply:Depends How Many BFFS you have ..
If you have say 6 You could Give four and then all of you pitch in for two more tickets ...
If that makes scence ..
Other than that , The Hat idea is pretty good :]
Probably the best
That way no grudges .
Reply:say all of your friends that you've got 4 tickets. Then they'll know the situation you are in. Let the friends decide who is coming with you...
Then you are out of trouble.
Reply:Well drawing names from the hat is the best thing and easist u dont have to choose which one u will like better and all that they might be upset but theyll be more upset if u just choose like that
Reply:Yes - or some other process totally at random. Let everyone know that you weren't playing favorites.
Reply:um no... u should just have them pic which on should go and if no one does u should say this( ok if yall aint going to help me then u must not be my friends and start to cry cuz crying allways helps)
Reply:you should definitely draw names. That would keep it fair. And have each person write his/her name his/herself so there wont be any accusations.
Reply:aSk them the reas0n wHy did they
like t0o come with y0u .. :D
Reply:yeah just let them know you don't know how to pick so you are gonna pick randomly
Reply:That's most fair I guess, HAVE FUN!!!!!! Enjoy it, I wish I was able to go.. :D
Reply:yes, straws, hat.... make it into a game so nobody feels bad about it and you get some fun out of it
have fun
cheers
Reply:Inie Minie Miny Moe in your head.
Reply:pick the ones with the most money.
Reply:well i say u invite ur really really close friends and then draw names out of a hat.
Reply:sounds good, but you should sheat and let me go with you!!!
Reply:umm. take me. im ur best friend in the whole wide world!
Reply:the ones that u talk to the most...
How do I choose which friends to invite?
I have 4 tickets to the Kids Choice Awards this year, but I have a big group of best friends and I'm no closer to any one than the rest of the group. They all want to come with me, so how do I decide which get to come? Should I just draw names from a hat?
How do I choose which friends to invite?
Why don't you write all names in a paper and pick a paper randomly. Or play paper scissor rock.
Reply:You should just pick the friend's that your closer to.
But as you say you have a lot of friends so it may be hard
but think about these things questions:
*Who makes you laugh
*Who are you always happy with
*Who gives the best gifts (lol.)
*Who takes you to places
ask those questions to yourself.
%26amp;hopefully you will figure out who to invite.
Hope i helped(=
Reply:well you definately wanna be fair i mean who wouldnt want the opportunity to go to the KCA with a gorgeous girl and yeah drawing names out of a hat would be good, but make sure ALL the friends you were going to invite are present for the drawing otherwise they could think you were lying
Reply:If your groups of friends are mature they won't get pissed if they aren't picked. Pick friends where it fits their schedule, their most fun to be around, and pick the friends who are MOST interested.
If you must, use the draw names out of a hat.
Reply:best way is to sit your Friends down put the yr names in a hat and let someone else draw the names out that makes it fare all round and if the yr names don't come out they cant blame you for you didn't draw the hat good luck
Reply:well, i think you should choose the friends that you think you will have the most fun with, and the friends that would cause the least amount of drama. if it comes to the worst, just draw names out of a hat.
Reply:Depends How Many BFFS you have ..
If you have say 6 You could Give four and then all of you pitch in for two more tickets ...
If that makes scence ..
Other than that , The Hat idea is pretty good :]
Probably the best
That way no grudges .
Reply:say all of your friends that you've got 4 tickets. Then they'll know the situation you are in. Let the friends decide who is coming with you...
Then you are out of trouble.
Reply:Well drawing names from the hat is the best thing and easist u dont have to choose which one u will like better and all that they might be upset but theyll be more upset if u just choose like that
Reply:Yes - or some other process totally at random. Let everyone know that you weren't playing favorites.
Reply:um no... u should just have them pic which on should go and if no one does u should say this( ok if yall aint going to help me then u must not be my friends and start to cry cuz crying allways helps)
Reply:you should definitely draw names. That would keep it fair. And have each person write his/her name his/herself so there wont be any accusations.
Reply:aSk them the reas0n wHy did they
like t0o come with y0u .. :D
Reply:yeah just let them know you don't know how to pick so you are gonna pick randomly
Reply:That's most fair I guess, HAVE FUN!!!!!! Enjoy it, I wish I was able to go.. :D
Reply:yes, straws, hat.... make it into a game so nobody feels bad about it and you get some fun out of it
have fun
cheers
Reply:Inie Minie Miny Moe in your head.
Reply:pick the ones with the most money.
Reply:well i say u invite ur really really close friends and then draw names out of a hat.
Reply:sounds good, but you should sheat and let me go with you!!!
Reply:umm. take me. im ur best friend in the whole wide world!
Reply:the ones that u talk to the most...
How do I choose which friends to invite?
Why don't you write all names in a paper and pick a paper randomly. Or play paper scissor rock.
Reply:You should just pick the friend's that your closer to.
But as you say you have a lot of friends so it may be hard
but think about these things questions:
*Who makes you laugh
*Who are you always happy with
*Who gives the best gifts (lol.)
*Who takes you to places
ask those questions to yourself.
%26amp;hopefully you will figure out who to invite.
Hope i helped(=
Reply:well you definately wanna be fair i mean who wouldnt want the opportunity to go to the KCA with a gorgeous girl and yeah drawing names out of a hat would be good, but make sure ALL the friends you were going to invite are present for the drawing otherwise they could think you were lying
Reply:If your groups of friends are mature they won't get pissed if they aren't picked. Pick friends where it fits their schedule, their most fun to be around, and pick the friends who are MOST interested.
If you must, use the draw names out of a hat.
Reply:best way is to sit your Friends down put the yr names in a hat and let someone else draw the names out that makes it fare all round and if the yr names don't come out they cant blame you for you didn't draw the hat good luck
Reply:well, i think you should choose the friends that you think you will have the most fun with, and the friends that would cause the least amount of drama. if it comes to the worst, just draw names out of a hat.
Reply:Depends How Many BFFS you have ..
If you have say 6 You could Give four and then all of you pitch in for two more tickets ...
If that makes scence ..
Other than that , The Hat idea is pretty good :]
Probably the best
That way no grudges .
Reply:say all of your friends that you've got 4 tickets. Then they'll know the situation you are in. Let the friends decide who is coming with you...
Then you are out of trouble.
Reply:Well drawing names from the hat is the best thing and easist u dont have to choose which one u will like better and all that they might be upset but theyll be more upset if u just choose like that
Reply:Yes - or some other process totally at random. Let everyone know that you weren't playing favorites.
Reply:um no... u should just have them pic which on should go and if no one does u should say this( ok if yall aint going to help me then u must not be my friends and start to cry cuz crying allways helps)
Reply:you should definitely draw names. That would keep it fair. And have each person write his/her name his/herself so there wont be any accusations.
Reply:aSk them the reas0n wHy did they
like t0o come with y0u .. :D
Reply:yeah just let them know you don't know how to pick so you are gonna pick randomly
Reply:That's most fair I guess, HAVE FUN!!!!!! Enjoy it, I wish I was able to go.. :D
Reply:yes, straws, hat.... make it into a game so nobody feels bad about it and you get some fun out of it
have fun
cheers
Reply:Inie Minie Miny Moe in your head.
Reply:pick the ones with the most money.
Reply:well i say u invite ur really really close friends and then draw names out of a hat.
Reply:sounds good, but you should sheat and let me go with you!!!
Reply:umm. take me. im ur best friend in the whole wide world!
Reply:the ones that u talk to the most...
Can Someone please send me a demonoid invite?
Reasons why:
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2) I always keep a good share ratio, and never remove a torrent before 1:1
3) I never seem to be able to get a day when registration is open
4) I have collections i would like everyone to enjoy
Please help, roberteowen@hotmail.co.uk.
Greatly Appreciated
Can Someone please send me a demonoid invite?
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Reply:http://privatetrackers.tk/ is a forum that gives away invites to private trackers like demonoid
Reply:It's open for registration right now. Hurry and you won't need a code!
Reply:I sent it to your e-mail. Hope it helps! :)
1 )No other sites seed enough
2) I always keep a good share ratio, and never remove a torrent before 1:1
3) I never seem to be able to get a day when registration is open
4) I have collections i would like everyone to enjoy
Please help, roberteowen@hotmail.co.uk.
Greatly Appreciated
Can Someone please send me a demonoid invite?
now registration is open in Demonoid. Hurry, go and register it. Just now I also registered there.
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Reply:http://privatetrackers.tk/ is a forum that gives away invites to private trackers like demonoid
Reply:It's open for registration right now. Hurry and you won't need a code!
Reply:I sent it to your e-mail. Hope it helps! :)
What does it mean if you invite a coworker to a holiday party ( well something like that )?
you kind of joke around with them somewhat flirtatiously, every once in a while- they tell you ( after you made an off the wall wisecrack comment to them - they say , only business. NO time for good clean fun. Other coworkers i invited also. Kind of a stupid question, but what do you all think?
What does it mean if you invite a coworker to a holiday party ( well something like that )?
Sounds like you enjoy your co workers company and would like to extend the relationship to do more fun activities outside the work place.
Reply:yes it is indeed a stupid question. I'm glad you noticed!
Reply:No big deal really. Good luck!!
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What does it mean if you invite a coworker to a holiday party ( well something like that )?
Sounds like you enjoy your co workers company and would like to extend the relationship to do more fun activities outside the work place.
Reply:yes it is indeed a stupid question. I'm glad you noticed!
Reply:No big deal really. Good luck!!
naming
My hubby and i got an invite to a semi-formal christmas party. i was told to wear a cocktail dress... ?
we are probably the youngest couple attending and there will be lots of professional ppl from our town there...i would like to look very trendy but still be takein seriously....help me find the perfect cocktail dress!!! thanks in advance!
My hubby and i got an invite to a semi-formal christmas party. i was told to wear a cocktail dress... ?
go to davids bridal they have plenty of cocktail dresses and they will be more than happy to help you or any bridal outlet can help you really and i hope you have a great time . I had a wonderfull time last year will not be going this year because my hubby is no longer employed there .
Reply:The little black dress is standard. Just don't show too much leg or cleavage as tempting as it may be try not to look for attention by dressing too provocative as it will end up being looked upon negatively
Reply:Heres a couple links to some very cute cocktail dresses. Hope you find one you like.
My hubby and i got an invite to a semi-formal christmas party. i was told to wear a cocktail dress... ?
go to davids bridal they have plenty of cocktail dresses and they will be more than happy to help you or any bridal outlet can help you really and i hope you have a great time . I had a wonderfull time last year will not be going this year because my hubby is no longer employed there .
Reply:The little black dress is standard. Just don't show too much leg or cleavage as tempting as it may be try not to look for attention by dressing too provocative as it will end up being looked upon negatively
Reply:Heres a couple links to some very cute cocktail dresses. Hope you find one you like.
Would giving 12 million illegals amnesty invite 12 million more illegals from mexico & south america?
The problem is big businesses want cheap labor but it's the government federal state %26amp; local paying for all services for the illegals....from emergency rooms to schools.
Would giving 12 million illegals amnesty invite 12 million more illegals from mexico %26amp; south america?
Hmmmm didn't know George Bush as a Democrat. He wants to give illegals amnesty!!!
We will continue to have this huge influx of illegals as long as we refuse to enforce the exiting laws against hiring Illegals. We stopped enforcing the requirement for filing an I9 with every new hire in 2001. Now the only time the ICE guys show up is when the illegals at an an employer threaten or organize or report health and safety violations.
Enforce the current laws they won't be able to get jobs.
Reply:Gotta get infantry from somewhere.
Reply:If giving amnesty to them is similar to what happened last time, then yes. The plan of the last amnesty was to just let them stay to prevent spending lots of money tracking them down when some of them are helpful for America. Another element of that plan was preventing this in the future, securing the border, and getting real about enforcing immigration laws. The second component never materialized.
The problem is more complex than big business wanting cheap labor, you are neglecting the millions of lower class from foreign countries that are unable to find work and face high unemployment in their areas. In fact, big business wanting cheap labor is a given, it's a constant, and it will never change, the millions of unemployed lower class foreigners is why it happens.
Similarly, your analysis that the federal and state government pay for these services for them when they do is wrong, they might be the first party payee but I guarantee you they push this cost on all American citizens through taxes.
Reply:Of course.. if we give amnesty to this 12 million. we will barely turn around and another 12 million will be here... Real Americans will be looking for country to live in.
California might as well be Mexico now.
What is the matter with these people .. why do they think they can just come to our country illegally and stay and use our services and take our jobs.
OH yeah.. now I remember.. because no government is brave enough o fix the problem.. now the problem is overwhelming.. so what is going to happen.. shall we all start learning Spanish and forget English. Thanks Washington...
Reply:I wouldn't expect any different results than the last time amnesty was given - history is a very good teacher.
Reply:Uh McCain does to don't forget . Seems that issue has crossed party lines eh ? Depends on how it's carried out I suppose . If the border was secured this time and laws followed this time it might work but if they don't do that no it won't . We'll have more just like now .
Reply:We would be much better off with doing nothing about illegal immigration than granting amnesty to 12 million. This will only encourage 12 million more to come.
John McCain wants to give amnesty also.
Reply:To answer your question;
Yes, since the 12 million illegals given amnesty would quit working once they qualify for liberal social programs. Leaving 12 million jobs to fill by new illegals....
Reply:We did that a while back...now it's over 20 mil...how far will it go???
r1b1c...they are here illegally, therefore they are illegal...undocumented worker is a PC term that I have completely and soundly rejected. It's sugar coating for an ILLEGAL activity...I am willing to call them national trespassers if that helps!!
Dude...they broke the immigration laws by sneaking in. THEY ARE ILLEGAL, CRIMINAL, and have no right to be here.
Reply:Of course! Amnesty will not solve the problem, no matter how you look at it. The illegal immigrant problem will only worsen.
Reply:First there is no such thing as "illegal" learn English, the word is undocumented". In our system of law, only what has been explicitly forbidden by law is illegal, everything else is perfectly legal.
There is no law that explicitly forbids entry into the United States, there are a myriad of laws that REGULATE the entry into this country, so the correct way to refer to people that failed to follow established legal procedure for entry is UNDOCUMENTED, since in order for somebody to become 'illegal' there would have to be a law that they have actively broken. That is not the case, by being in the US without having followed the proper legal procedure for entry they are UNDOCUMENTED not illegal
Second, no because a comprehensive immigration reform would require control over the borders.
Would giving 12 million illegals amnesty invite 12 million more illegals from mexico %26amp; south america?
Hmmmm didn't know George Bush as a Democrat. He wants to give illegals amnesty!!!
We will continue to have this huge influx of illegals as long as we refuse to enforce the exiting laws against hiring Illegals. We stopped enforcing the requirement for filing an I9 with every new hire in 2001. Now the only time the ICE guys show up is when the illegals at an an employer threaten or organize or report health and safety violations.
Enforce the current laws they won't be able to get jobs.
Reply:Gotta get infantry from somewhere.
Reply:If giving amnesty to them is similar to what happened last time, then yes. The plan of the last amnesty was to just let them stay to prevent spending lots of money tracking them down when some of them are helpful for America. Another element of that plan was preventing this in the future, securing the border, and getting real about enforcing immigration laws. The second component never materialized.
The problem is more complex than big business wanting cheap labor, you are neglecting the millions of lower class from foreign countries that are unable to find work and face high unemployment in their areas. In fact, big business wanting cheap labor is a given, it's a constant, and it will never change, the millions of unemployed lower class foreigners is why it happens.
Similarly, your analysis that the federal and state government pay for these services for them when they do is wrong, they might be the first party payee but I guarantee you they push this cost on all American citizens through taxes.
Reply:Of course.. if we give amnesty to this 12 million. we will barely turn around and another 12 million will be here... Real Americans will be looking for country to live in.
California might as well be Mexico now.
What is the matter with these people .. why do they think they can just come to our country illegally and stay and use our services and take our jobs.
OH yeah.. now I remember.. because no government is brave enough o fix the problem.. now the problem is overwhelming.. so what is going to happen.. shall we all start learning Spanish and forget English. Thanks Washington...
Reply:I wouldn't expect any different results than the last time amnesty was given - history is a very good teacher.
Reply:Uh McCain does to don't forget . Seems that issue has crossed party lines eh ? Depends on how it's carried out I suppose . If the border was secured this time and laws followed this time it might work but if they don't do that no it won't . We'll have more just like now .
Reply:We would be much better off with doing nothing about illegal immigration than granting amnesty to 12 million. This will only encourage 12 million more to come.
John McCain wants to give amnesty also.
Reply:To answer your question;
Yes, since the 12 million illegals given amnesty would quit working once they qualify for liberal social programs. Leaving 12 million jobs to fill by new illegals....
Reply:We did that a while back...now it's over 20 mil...how far will it go???
r1b1c...they are here illegally, therefore they are illegal...undocumented worker is a PC term that I have completely and soundly rejected. It's sugar coating for an ILLEGAL activity...I am willing to call them national trespassers if that helps!!
Dude...they broke the immigration laws by sneaking in. THEY ARE ILLEGAL, CRIMINAL, and have no right to be here.
Reply:Of course! Amnesty will not solve the problem, no matter how you look at it. The illegal immigrant problem will only worsen.
Reply:First there is no such thing as "illegal" learn English, the word is undocumented". In our system of law, only what has been explicitly forbidden by law is illegal, everything else is perfectly legal.
There is no law that explicitly forbids entry into the United States, there are a myriad of laws that REGULATE the entry into this country, so the correct way to refer to people that failed to follow established legal procedure for entry is UNDOCUMENTED, since in order for somebody to become 'illegal' there would have to be a law that they have actively broken. That is not the case, by being in the US without having followed the proper legal procedure for entry they are UNDOCUMENTED not illegal
Second, no because a comprehensive immigration reform would require control over the borders.
Can anyone give me a demonoid invite code please?
I've been trying for a while but to no avail, I can never seem to get in during those public months.. =\..
Can anyone give me a demonoid invite code please?
You didn't try it on Sunday though. Registrations were open then.
Can anyone give me a demonoid invite code please?
You didn't try it on Sunday though. Registrations were open then.
My wife always asking me to invite another man to share us as threesome is this common with most of the women?
to be honest i like watching her having sex with another man but after finishing i feel sorry and upset
My wife always asking me to invite another man to share us as threesome is this common with most of the women?
It's not common, but happens more than you think. Either stop doing it so you won't feel bad, or stop feeling bad after you do it. Decision time
Reply:No I don't think that's very common,
name naming
My wife always asking me to invite another man to share us as threesome is this common with most of the women?
It's not common, but happens more than you think. Either stop doing it so you won't feel bad, or stop feeling bad after you do it. Decision time
Reply:No I don't think that's very common,
name naming
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Thank you if you can help!!!
How can I word my invite to include menu options??
you don't list the entire menu, just the options. you put it on your RSVP card. it should say something like this:
Please respond by July 15, 2008.
Name(s)___________________
number attending ____________
number declining ____________
____ Chicken Oscar
____ Prime Rib
____ Salmon
Reply:Menu choices shouldn't be on the invitation, but listed on the RSVP card. Usually the only part of the meal that is varied is the entree, and you would list that as shown by the person before me, and give the space to check their selection.
Reply:I htink the best option would be to list the options so if you have any vegetarians or food intolerances they can be dealt with before the wedding and will save you the headache on the day enjoy your big day
I need to place menu options in with my invite. Could somebone please give me some examples on how to word it.
Do I list the entire menu with it ot just list options??
Thank you if you can help!!!
How can I word my invite to include menu options??
you don't list the entire menu, just the options. you put it on your RSVP card. it should say something like this:
Please respond by July 15, 2008.
Name(s)___________________
number attending ____________
number declining ____________
____ Chicken Oscar
____ Prime Rib
____ Salmon
Reply:Menu choices shouldn't be on the invitation, but listed on the RSVP card. Usually the only part of the meal that is varied is the entree, and you would list that as shown by the person before me, and give the space to check their selection.
Reply:I htink the best option would be to list the options so if you have any vegetarians or food intolerances they can be dealt with before the wedding and will save you the headache on the day enjoy your big day
How to word my wedding invite to ask them to pay for themselves for the reception...?
My fiancee and I have budgeted our wedding to pay for the 24 people in our lives who we couldn't get married without. You know, the people that if even one of them was missing then the day wouldn't be the same. We are unable to pay for anybody else without cutting costs to dodgy levels.We wanted the big wedding but couldn't afford it. How will I word the invitations to ask the others to fork out the $135 a head to come. Our parents aren't an option for cash...
How to word my wedding invite to ask them to pay for themselves for the reception...?
I think you answered your own question: "we wanted the big wedding but couldn't afford it." In other words, you CANNOT ask your guests to pay their own way, which means if you can't afford it, you can't have it. Why don't you have an intimate wedding with your 24 people, and then later send out wedding announcements with invitations to an informal reception - with inexpensive hors d'oevres and drinks (or do a no-hostbar). You can even do that in your backyard, or a friends home and have everything be homemade, to keep costs down.
I feel for you - I know it can be disappointing to not be able to have the wedding of your dreams, but at least this way you can sort of get the best of both worlds, not upset all your friends and family by asking them to shell out $135, AND focus on what's important - having the marriage of your dreams.
Reply:u dont need to do that..be nicer!!!
Reply:is this price per person?its too much my friend.I th谋nk nobody can not afford this.if you dont have much money for this wedding why you organize such a big deal with too much money??
peace..
Reply:Invite everyone to the wedding (the ceremony). If your invitation only includes the ceremony on it, you can send a separate card to those whom you want to be at the reception. But it's pretty tacky to have any guest pay for his/herself at the reception.
Reply:Don't word it on an invitation. It's not appropriate, technically you shouldn't even be expecting gifts at all. I would be insulted if I was invited to a wedding and I found out I wasn't important enough to be one of the people who got their meal covered.
I suggest you spread out the budget of the 24 people and do a appetizer/cocktail reception that you and your family and fiancee can afford. Or limit it entirely to a intimate dinner at a restaurant.
I'm sorry, I wish there was a better solution for you to get everything you want.
Reply:That is rediculous!!!. If you want just about everyone close to you to think you are a buffoon than ask them to pay $135 to come to your wedding.
I don't even know what to else say... I would be appalled. And I suppose you want a gift too!!!
Just have everyone over for a barbeque after the wedding, or do your 24 people thing and stop at that. Don't you dare ask people to pay to come to your wedding.
Reply:i really understand where you are coming from BUT i do think it is really tacky to ask that. i wanted everyone at my wedding that was important to me. SO, i had it at a small restaurant and it was like $14 a person. that way i could have everyone i wanted. you dont need to have it at a place thats $135. you can cut cost right there and have all the people you want. $135 times 24 quests is $3240. you can find a less expensive place and have more than 24 people for that kind of money. do a little research.
Reply:Sorry, but you can't. If you can't afford to have a big wedding, then you don't have one, unless you're willing to go into debt for it, which I wouldn't advise. It would honestly be the height of rudeness and tackiness to invite someone to your wedding, and then say "oh yeah, you have to pay for it." It just plain isn't done.
If you can't afford a meal, just have a cake and punch reception, and then invite more people. You can cut reception costs 2 ways, either invite fewer people, or serve less food.
Reply:Don't have food there. I wouldn't even go if one of my friends suggested to me that I would have to pay $135 to attend. That is ridiculous.
Why should they have to pay for your BIG day. Cut back and just have cake. It is about everyone getting together, not about the expense.
Reply:asking your guest to pay $135 to come is a lot of money!! I am sure there are other reception places that could have been more reasonably priced (say around 65-85 dollars). I don't know too many people that would pay that AND give you a wedding gift.
Reply:If you cannot afford to pay for them, then you do not invite them! You have to be mature and make a choice--do you want the BIG wedding with just your 24 or a simple cocktail reception with everyone. Frankly, since you are demonstrating such selfishness and greediness, one wonders if you are ready for marriage at all!
Reply:OK you so can't do that!!!!!! It's the WORST idea ever!!!
If you can't afford it, then you don't get to have it, it's that simple. Have a different kind a reception, just cake or something. Whatever you can afford
Reply:then dont invite anyone else!!!!
that is a lot of money, personally i couldn't come to a wedding if it cost that much money. and you probably wouldn't get any gifts either, and people would just get mad.
Reply:no dont do that Just serve cake and punch dear and have class that way
Reply:You should have two sets if invitations......one for the wedding ceremony only.....send that one to everyone you want at the wedding. The reception can be a "private party", and only those you can afford to pay for should be invited. It's just plain rude to invite someone to a reception and ask them to pay that much. That's more than a lot of people can afford to spend on a gift.
Reply:This is tough, but I think you will need to either keep your reception to those 24 people - or you need to make your reception just cocktails and cake (and instead of going to a restaurant for those, have the reception in a back yard and go to a warehouse superstore and buy cases of wine to cut costs again). It is extremely rude to ask your guests to pay for themselves. I would either wait to have my wedding until I can afford to feed everyone, cut my reception list to just those 24 people, pull out a loan, or do a cake and wine reception.
Good luck!
Reply:Thats gonna be tough, $135? If the more "unimportant" people have to come up with $135....do you think they would be willing to pay that much for a wedding of 2 people that THEY themselves might not find the most important? Do you get what I'm saying? If they arent extremely important to you, how do you know that you're important enough to them to pay $135? Thats quite alot of money...I wouldnt be expecting many wedding gifts...
Reply:That is sooooo Dodgy of you! Instead of hurting peoples feelings elope instead. It's cheaper and more fun! Go to Las Vegas like I did!
Reply:That really is horrible that you would do that! My husband and I just went to a wedding last weekend and had to pay for our drinks! We thought that was really rude. First off we traveled there and spent money on a hotel and gas. We had no money left over to drink! Let alone get our breakfest the next morning. That is wrong that you would really want to INVITE people to pay. If you can not afford to treat them like a GUEST then don't INVITE them at all. I would never go to a wedding that asked me to pay for myself. You don't invite people to your house for dinner and expect them to bring money to pay for it, do you?
Reply:Since you can't afford the price, don't invite them. It's too much to ask the guests to pay for their own meal at that cost, a gift, their transportation, hotels, clothing, etc... that's a lot of money for them to spend on your day. You should call and explain to each person that while you would love to have them, you just can't afford it. They will understand.
OR
Have a less expensive wedding and invite more people. Maybe offer several menu selection on the reply card. Have the two or three choices listed with prices and a line for selection. That way the people know that they are expected to pay for their own meal, but it shouldn't be $135 per person. Try a less expensive menu, like chicken, fish, and pork over prime rib. Also include "Cash Bar" so that the guests know that you will not be providing alcohol. If anything else is included in the $135, then try cutting it out. Favors and decorations can be done without when you are on a tight budget. Try a party supply store for inexpensive bulk wedding favors, and silk flowers instead of fresh flowers. There are a million ways to cut costs without going cheap and/or tacky.
EDIT:
OK, so it's $102.50 US. That's still too much to ask the guest to fork over to attend. You could always say on the card that in lieu of gifts, you are asking for help with wedding expenses. Then list tthe amount required to attend.
I still think it's tacky and a very bad idea. Not only will you offend all those people, they probably won't come, and don't expect them to be friendly after they see it. Asking for money is the height of vulgar.
Reply:Do not charge people to attend your wedding. There is no way (thank goodness) to make such a request of people. If you can only invite 24, do that. if you must have it larger, then feed everyone less (or just a few trays of passed appetizers), have the wedding in a back yard or a public park. There are lots of ways to make a less expensive or smaller wedding work....but there is no way on earth of charging people to attend your wedding without offending them forever.
How to word my wedding invite to ask them to pay for themselves for the reception...?
I think you answered your own question: "we wanted the big wedding but couldn't afford it." In other words, you CANNOT ask your guests to pay their own way, which means if you can't afford it, you can't have it. Why don't you have an intimate wedding with your 24 people, and then later send out wedding announcements with invitations to an informal reception - with inexpensive hors d'oevres and drinks (or do a no-hostbar). You can even do that in your backyard, or a friends home and have everything be homemade, to keep costs down.
I feel for you - I know it can be disappointing to not be able to have the wedding of your dreams, but at least this way you can sort of get the best of both worlds, not upset all your friends and family by asking them to shell out $135, AND focus on what's important - having the marriage of your dreams.
Reply:u dont need to do that..be nicer!!!
Reply:is this price per person?its too much my friend.I th谋nk nobody can not afford this.if you dont have much money for this wedding why you organize such a big deal with too much money??
peace..
Reply:Invite everyone to the wedding (the ceremony). If your invitation only includes the ceremony on it, you can send a separate card to those whom you want to be at the reception. But it's pretty tacky to have any guest pay for his/herself at the reception.
Reply:Don't word it on an invitation. It's not appropriate, technically you shouldn't even be expecting gifts at all. I would be insulted if I was invited to a wedding and I found out I wasn't important enough to be one of the people who got their meal covered.
I suggest you spread out the budget of the 24 people and do a appetizer/cocktail reception that you and your family and fiancee can afford. Or limit it entirely to a intimate dinner at a restaurant.
I'm sorry, I wish there was a better solution for you to get everything you want.
Reply:That is rediculous!!!. If you want just about everyone close to you to think you are a buffoon than ask them to pay $135 to come to your wedding.
I don't even know what to else say... I would be appalled. And I suppose you want a gift too!!!
Just have everyone over for a barbeque after the wedding, or do your 24 people thing and stop at that. Don't you dare ask people to pay to come to your wedding.
Reply:i really understand where you are coming from BUT i do think it is really tacky to ask that. i wanted everyone at my wedding that was important to me. SO, i had it at a small restaurant and it was like $14 a person. that way i could have everyone i wanted. you dont need to have it at a place thats $135. you can cut cost right there and have all the people you want. $135 times 24 quests is $3240. you can find a less expensive place and have more than 24 people for that kind of money. do a little research.
Reply:Sorry, but you can't. If you can't afford to have a big wedding, then you don't have one, unless you're willing to go into debt for it, which I wouldn't advise. It would honestly be the height of rudeness and tackiness to invite someone to your wedding, and then say "oh yeah, you have to pay for it." It just plain isn't done.
If you can't afford a meal, just have a cake and punch reception, and then invite more people. You can cut reception costs 2 ways, either invite fewer people, or serve less food.
Reply:Don't have food there. I wouldn't even go if one of my friends suggested to me that I would have to pay $135 to attend. That is ridiculous.
Why should they have to pay for your BIG day. Cut back and just have cake. It is about everyone getting together, not about the expense.
Reply:asking your guest to pay $135 to come is a lot of money!! I am sure there are other reception places that could have been more reasonably priced (say around 65-85 dollars). I don't know too many people that would pay that AND give you a wedding gift.
Reply:If you cannot afford to pay for them, then you do not invite them! You have to be mature and make a choice--do you want the BIG wedding with just your 24 or a simple cocktail reception with everyone. Frankly, since you are demonstrating such selfishness and greediness, one wonders if you are ready for marriage at all!
Reply:OK you so can't do that!!!!!! It's the WORST idea ever!!!
If you can't afford it, then you don't get to have it, it's that simple. Have a different kind a reception, just cake or something. Whatever you can afford
Reply:then dont invite anyone else!!!!
that is a lot of money, personally i couldn't come to a wedding if it cost that much money. and you probably wouldn't get any gifts either, and people would just get mad.
Reply:no dont do that Just serve cake and punch dear and have class that way
Reply:You should have two sets if invitations......one for the wedding ceremony only.....send that one to everyone you want at the wedding. The reception can be a "private party", and only those you can afford to pay for should be invited. It's just plain rude to invite someone to a reception and ask them to pay that much. That's more than a lot of people can afford to spend on a gift.
Reply:This is tough, but I think you will need to either keep your reception to those 24 people - or you need to make your reception just cocktails and cake (and instead of going to a restaurant for those, have the reception in a back yard and go to a warehouse superstore and buy cases of wine to cut costs again). It is extremely rude to ask your guests to pay for themselves. I would either wait to have my wedding until I can afford to feed everyone, cut my reception list to just those 24 people, pull out a loan, or do a cake and wine reception.
Good luck!
Reply:Thats gonna be tough, $135? If the more "unimportant" people have to come up with $135....do you think they would be willing to pay that much for a wedding of 2 people that THEY themselves might not find the most important? Do you get what I'm saying? If they arent extremely important to you, how do you know that you're important enough to them to pay $135? Thats quite alot of money...I wouldnt be expecting many wedding gifts...
Reply:That is sooooo Dodgy of you! Instead of hurting peoples feelings elope instead. It's cheaper and more fun! Go to Las Vegas like I did!
Reply:That really is horrible that you would do that! My husband and I just went to a wedding last weekend and had to pay for our drinks! We thought that was really rude. First off we traveled there and spent money on a hotel and gas. We had no money left over to drink! Let alone get our breakfest the next morning. That is wrong that you would really want to INVITE people to pay. If you can not afford to treat them like a GUEST then don't INVITE them at all. I would never go to a wedding that asked me to pay for myself. You don't invite people to your house for dinner and expect them to bring money to pay for it, do you?
Reply:Since you can't afford the price, don't invite them. It's too much to ask the guests to pay for their own meal at that cost, a gift, their transportation, hotels, clothing, etc... that's a lot of money for them to spend on your day. You should call and explain to each person that while you would love to have them, you just can't afford it. They will understand.
OR
Have a less expensive wedding and invite more people. Maybe offer several menu selection on the reply card. Have the two or three choices listed with prices and a line for selection. That way the people know that they are expected to pay for their own meal, but it shouldn't be $135 per person. Try a less expensive menu, like chicken, fish, and pork over prime rib. Also include "Cash Bar" so that the guests know that you will not be providing alcohol. If anything else is included in the $135, then try cutting it out. Favors and decorations can be done without when you are on a tight budget. Try a party supply store for inexpensive bulk wedding favors, and silk flowers instead of fresh flowers. There are a million ways to cut costs without going cheap and/or tacky.
EDIT:
OK, so it's $102.50 US. That's still too much to ask the guest to fork over to attend. You could always say on the card that in lieu of gifts, you are asking for help with wedding expenses. Then list tthe amount required to attend.
I still think it's tacky and a very bad idea. Not only will you offend all those people, they probably won't come, and don't expect them to be friendly after they see it. Asking for money is the height of vulgar.
Reply:Do not charge people to attend your wedding. There is no way (thank goodness) to make such a request of people. If you can only invite 24, do that. if you must have it larger, then feed everyone less (or just a few trays of passed appetizers), have the wedding in a back yard or a public park. There are lots of ways to make a less expensive or smaller wedding work....but there is no way on earth of charging people to attend your wedding without offending them forever.
How to word my wedding invite to ask them to pay for themselves for the reception...?
My fiancee and I have budgeted our wedding to pay for the 24 people in our lives who we couldn't get married without. You know, the people that if even one of them was missing then the day wouldn't be the same. We are unable to pay for anybody else without cutting costs to dodgy levels.We wanted the big wedding but couldn't afford it. How will I word the invitations to ask the others to fork out the $135 a head to come. Our parents aren't an option for cash...
How to word my wedding invite to ask them to pay for themselves for the reception...?
I think you answered your own question: "we wanted the big wedding but couldn't afford it." In other words, you CANNOT ask your guests to pay their own way, which means if you can't afford it, you can't have it. Why don't you have an intimate wedding with your 24 people, and then later send out wedding announcements with invitations to an informal reception - with inexpensive hors d'oevres and drinks (or do a no-hostbar). You can even do that in your backyard, or a friends home and have everything be homemade, to keep costs down.
I feel for you - I know it can be disappointing to not be able to have the wedding of your dreams, but at least this way you can sort of get the best of both worlds, not upset all your friends and family by asking them to shell out $135, AND focus on what's important - having the marriage of your dreams.
Reply:u dont need to do that..be nicer!!!
Reply:is this price per person?its too much my friend.I th谋nk nobody can not afford this.if you dont have much money for this wedding why you organize such a big deal with too much money??
peace..
Reply:Invite everyone to the wedding (the ceremony). If your invitation only includes the ceremony on it, you can send a separate card to those whom you want to be at the reception. But it's pretty tacky to have any guest pay for his/herself at the reception.
Reply:Don't word it on an invitation. It's not appropriate, technically you shouldn't even be expecting gifts at all. I would be insulted if I was invited to a wedding and I found out I wasn't important enough to be one of the people who got their meal covered.
I suggest you spread out the budget of the 24 people and do a appetizer/cocktail reception that you and your family and fiancee can afford. Or limit it entirely to a intimate dinner at a restaurant.
I'm sorry, I wish there was a better solution for you to get everything you want.
Reply:That is rediculous!!!. If you want just about everyone close to you to think you are a buffoon than ask them to pay $135 to come to your wedding.
I don't even know what to else say... I would be appalled. And I suppose you want a gift too!!!
Just have everyone over for a barbeque after the wedding, or do your 24 people thing and stop at that. Don't you dare ask people to pay to come to your wedding.
Reply:i really understand where you are coming from BUT i do think it is really tacky to ask that. i wanted everyone at my wedding that was important to me. SO, i had it at a small restaurant and it was like $14 a person. that way i could have everyone i wanted. you dont need to have it at a place thats $135. you can cut cost right there and have all the people you want. $135 times 24 quests is $3240. you can find a less expensive place and have more than 24 people for that kind of money. do a little research.
Reply:Sorry, but you can't. If you can't afford to have a big wedding, then you don't have one, unless you're willing to go into debt for it, which I wouldn't advise. It would honestly be the height of rudeness and tackiness to invite someone to your wedding, and then say "oh yeah, you have to pay for it." It just plain isn't done.
If you can't afford a meal, just have a cake and punch reception, and then invite more people. You can cut reception costs 2 ways, either invite fewer people, or serve less food.
Reply:Don't have food there. I wouldn't even go if one of my friends suggested to me that I would have to pay $135 to attend. That is ridiculous.
Why should they have to pay for your BIG day. Cut back and just have cake. It is about everyone getting together, not about the expense.
Reply:asking your guest to pay $135 to come is a lot of money!! I am sure there are other reception places that could have been more reasonably priced (say around 65-85 dollars). I don't know too many people that would pay that AND give you a wedding gift.
Reply:If you cannot afford to pay for them, then you do not invite them! You have to be mature and make a choice--do you want the BIG wedding with just your 24 or a simple cocktail reception with everyone. Frankly, since you are demonstrating such selfishness and greediness, one wonders if you are ready for marriage at all!
Reply:OK you so can't do that!!!!!! It's the WORST idea ever!!!
If you can't afford it, then you don't get to have it, it's that simple. Have a different kind a reception, just cake or something. Whatever you can afford
Reply:then dont invite anyone else!!!!
that is a lot of money, personally i couldn't come to a wedding if it cost that much money. and you probably wouldn't get any gifts either, and people would just get mad.
Reply:no dont do that Just serve cake and punch dear and have class that way
Reply:You should have two sets if invitations......one for the wedding ceremony only.....send that one to everyone you want at the wedding. The reception can be a "private party", and only those you can afford to pay for should be invited. It's just plain rude to invite someone to a reception and ask them to pay that much. That's more than a lot of people can afford to spend on a gift.
Reply:This is tough, but I think you will need to either keep your reception to those 24 people - or you need to make your reception just cocktails and cake (and instead of going to a restaurant for those, have the reception in a back yard and go to a warehouse superstore and buy cases of wine to cut costs again). It is extremely rude to ask your guests to pay for themselves. I would either wait to have my wedding until I can afford to feed everyone, cut my reception list to just those 24 people, pull out a loan, or do a cake and wine reception.
Good luck!
Reply:Thats gonna be tough, $135? If the more "unimportant" people have to come up with $135....do you think they would be willing to pay that much for a wedding of 2 people that THEY themselves might not find the most important? Do you get what I'm saying? If they arent extremely important to you, how do you know that you're important enough to them to pay $135? Thats quite alot of money...I wouldnt be expecting many wedding gifts...
Reply:That is sooooo Dodgy of you! Instead of hurting peoples feelings elope instead. It's cheaper and more fun! Go to Las Vegas like I did!
Reply:That really is horrible that you would do that! My husband and I just went to a wedding last weekend and had to pay for our drinks! We thought that was really rude. First off we traveled there and spent money on a hotel and gas. We had no money left over to drink! Let alone get our breakfest the next morning. That is wrong that you would really want to INVITE people to pay. If you can not afford to treat them like a GUEST then don't INVITE them at all. I would never go to a wedding that asked me to pay for myself. You don't invite people to your house for dinner and expect them to bring money to pay for it, do you?
Reply:Since you can't afford the price, don't invite them. It's too much to ask the guests to pay for their own meal at that cost, a gift, their transportation, hotels, clothing, etc... that's a lot of money for them to spend on your day. You should call and explain to each person that while you would love to have them, you just can't afford it. They will understand.
OR
Have a less expensive wedding and invite more people. Maybe offer several menu selection on the reply card. Have the two or three choices listed with prices and a line for selection. That way the people know that they are expected to pay for their own meal, but it shouldn't be $135 per person. Try a less expensive menu, like chicken, fish, and pork over prime rib. Also include "Cash Bar" so that the guests know that you will not be providing alcohol. If anything else is included in the $135, then try cutting it out. Favors and decorations can be done without when you are on a tight budget. Try a party supply store for inexpensive bulk wedding favors, and silk flowers instead of fresh flowers. There are a million ways to cut costs without going cheap and/or tacky.
EDIT:
OK, so it's $102.50 US. That's still too much to ask the guest to fork over to attend. You could always say on the card that in lieu of gifts, you are asking for help with wedding expenses. Then list tthe amount required to attend.
I still think it's tacky and a very bad idea. Not only will you offend all those people, they probably won't come, and don't expect them to be friendly after they see it. Asking for money is the height of vulgar.
Reply:Do not charge people to attend your wedding. There is no way (thank goodness) to make such a request of people. If you can only invite 24, do that. if you must have it larger, then feed everyone less (or just a few trays of passed appetizers), have the wedding in a back yard or a public park. There are lots of ways to make a less expensive or smaller wedding work....but there is no way on earth of charging people to attend your wedding without offending them forever.
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How to word my wedding invite to ask them to pay for themselves for the reception...?
I think you answered your own question: "we wanted the big wedding but couldn't afford it." In other words, you CANNOT ask your guests to pay their own way, which means if you can't afford it, you can't have it. Why don't you have an intimate wedding with your 24 people, and then later send out wedding announcements with invitations to an informal reception - with inexpensive hors d'oevres and drinks (or do a no-hostbar). You can even do that in your backyard, or a friends home and have everything be homemade, to keep costs down.
I feel for you - I know it can be disappointing to not be able to have the wedding of your dreams, but at least this way you can sort of get the best of both worlds, not upset all your friends and family by asking them to shell out $135, AND focus on what's important - having the marriage of your dreams.
Reply:u dont need to do that..be nicer!!!
Reply:is this price per person?its too much my friend.I th谋nk nobody can not afford this.if you dont have much money for this wedding why you organize such a big deal with too much money??
peace..
Reply:Invite everyone to the wedding (the ceremony). If your invitation only includes the ceremony on it, you can send a separate card to those whom you want to be at the reception. But it's pretty tacky to have any guest pay for his/herself at the reception.
Reply:Don't word it on an invitation. It's not appropriate, technically you shouldn't even be expecting gifts at all. I would be insulted if I was invited to a wedding and I found out I wasn't important enough to be one of the people who got their meal covered.
I suggest you spread out the budget of the 24 people and do a appetizer/cocktail reception that you and your family and fiancee can afford. Or limit it entirely to a intimate dinner at a restaurant.
I'm sorry, I wish there was a better solution for you to get everything you want.
Reply:That is rediculous!!!. If you want just about everyone close to you to think you are a buffoon than ask them to pay $135 to come to your wedding.
I don't even know what to else say... I would be appalled. And I suppose you want a gift too!!!
Just have everyone over for a barbeque after the wedding, or do your 24 people thing and stop at that. Don't you dare ask people to pay to come to your wedding.
Reply:i really understand where you are coming from BUT i do think it is really tacky to ask that. i wanted everyone at my wedding that was important to me. SO, i had it at a small restaurant and it was like $14 a person. that way i could have everyone i wanted. you dont need to have it at a place thats $135. you can cut cost right there and have all the people you want. $135 times 24 quests is $3240. you can find a less expensive place and have more than 24 people for that kind of money. do a little research.
Reply:Sorry, but you can't. If you can't afford to have a big wedding, then you don't have one, unless you're willing to go into debt for it, which I wouldn't advise. It would honestly be the height of rudeness and tackiness to invite someone to your wedding, and then say "oh yeah, you have to pay for it." It just plain isn't done.
If you can't afford a meal, just have a cake and punch reception, and then invite more people. You can cut reception costs 2 ways, either invite fewer people, or serve less food.
Reply:Don't have food there. I wouldn't even go if one of my friends suggested to me that I would have to pay $135 to attend. That is ridiculous.
Why should they have to pay for your BIG day. Cut back and just have cake. It is about everyone getting together, not about the expense.
Reply:asking your guest to pay $135 to come is a lot of money!! I am sure there are other reception places that could have been more reasonably priced (say around 65-85 dollars). I don't know too many people that would pay that AND give you a wedding gift.
Reply:If you cannot afford to pay for them, then you do not invite them! You have to be mature and make a choice--do you want the BIG wedding with just your 24 or a simple cocktail reception with everyone. Frankly, since you are demonstrating such selfishness and greediness, one wonders if you are ready for marriage at all!
Reply:OK you so can't do that!!!!!! It's the WORST idea ever!!!
If you can't afford it, then you don't get to have it, it's that simple. Have a different kind a reception, just cake or something. Whatever you can afford
Reply:then dont invite anyone else!!!!
that is a lot of money, personally i couldn't come to a wedding if it cost that much money. and you probably wouldn't get any gifts either, and people would just get mad.
Reply:no dont do that Just serve cake and punch dear and have class that way
Reply:You should have two sets if invitations......one for the wedding ceremony only.....send that one to everyone you want at the wedding. The reception can be a "private party", and only those you can afford to pay for should be invited. It's just plain rude to invite someone to a reception and ask them to pay that much. That's more than a lot of people can afford to spend on a gift.
Reply:This is tough, but I think you will need to either keep your reception to those 24 people - or you need to make your reception just cocktails and cake (and instead of going to a restaurant for those, have the reception in a back yard and go to a warehouse superstore and buy cases of wine to cut costs again). It is extremely rude to ask your guests to pay for themselves. I would either wait to have my wedding until I can afford to feed everyone, cut my reception list to just those 24 people, pull out a loan, or do a cake and wine reception.
Good luck!
Reply:Thats gonna be tough, $135? If the more "unimportant" people have to come up with $135....do you think they would be willing to pay that much for a wedding of 2 people that THEY themselves might not find the most important? Do you get what I'm saying? If they arent extremely important to you, how do you know that you're important enough to them to pay $135? Thats quite alot of money...I wouldnt be expecting many wedding gifts...
Reply:That is sooooo Dodgy of you! Instead of hurting peoples feelings elope instead. It's cheaper and more fun! Go to Las Vegas like I did!
Reply:That really is horrible that you would do that! My husband and I just went to a wedding last weekend and had to pay for our drinks! We thought that was really rude. First off we traveled there and spent money on a hotel and gas. We had no money left over to drink! Let alone get our breakfest the next morning. That is wrong that you would really want to INVITE people to pay. If you can not afford to treat them like a GUEST then don't INVITE them at all. I would never go to a wedding that asked me to pay for myself. You don't invite people to your house for dinner and expect them to bring money to pay for it, do you?
Reply:Since you can't afford the price, don't invite them. It's too much to ask the guests to pay for their own meal at that cost, a gift, their transportation, hotels, clothing, etc... that's a lot of money for them to spend on your day. You should call and explain to each person that while you would love to have them, you just can't afford it. They will understand.
OR
Have a less expensive wedding and invite more people. Maybe offer several menu selection on the reply card. Have the two or three choices listed with prices and a line for selection. That way the people know that they are expected to pay for their own meal, but it shouldn't be $135 per person. Try a less expensive menu, like chicken, fish, and pork over prime rib. Also include "Cash Bar" so that the guests know that you will not be providing alcohol. If anything else is included in the $135, then try cutting it out. Favors and decorations can be done without when you are on a tight budget. Try a party supply store for inexpensive bulk wedding favors, and silk flowers instead of fresh flowers. There are a million ways to cut costs without going cheap and/or tacky.
EDIT:
OK, so it's $102.50 US. That's still too much to ask the guest to fork over to attend. You could always say on the card that in lieu of gifts, you are asking for help with wedding expenses. Then list tthe amount required to attend.
I still think it's tacky and a very bad idea. Not only will you offend all those people, they probably won't come, and don't expect them to be friendly after they see it. Asking for money is the height of vulgar.
Reply:Do not charge people to attend your wedding. There is no way (thank goodness) to make such a request of people. If you can only invite 24, do that. if you must have it larger, then feed everyone less (or just a few trays of passed appetizers), have the wedding in a back yard or a public park. There are lots of ways to make a less expensive or smaller wedding work....but there is no way on earth of charging people to attend your wedding without offending them forever.
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Did the East German Communists invite former Nazi Otto Strasser to join the government?
I read somewhere on the internet that former Nazi Party member Otto Strasser was invited to join the communist SED in East Germany sometime after WWII but he declined the offer. Is this true? Is there some reference somewhere?
Did the East German Communists invite former Nazi Otto Strasser to join the government?
It certainly makes sense. Why would a facist want to be a communist?
Did the East German Communists invite former Nazi Otto Strasser to join the government?
It certainly makes sense. Why would a facist want to be a communist?
How do I get an invite to pledge the graduate chapter of aka?
Do you have to be invited by a graduate AKA or can it be just any AKA?
How do I get an invite to pledge the graduate chapter of aka?
you have to get an invite, make sure to attend all the activities, I am also in the process of pledging the beautiful Alpha Kappa Alpha. Attend all meetings so that way they know you r int rested. I first pledge in 1999, I was on line but I had to get off line because I was pregnant. I loved learning how to step, even though I know all of the chants and steps. I can not do it no matter what. So Now I am getting back, looking to join for spring 2008. And remember discretion is the key must not let your Friends know U r Pledging
Reply:it depends
How do I get an invite to pledge the graduate chapter of aka?
you have to get an invite, make sure to attend all the activities, I am also in the process of pledging the beautiful Alpha Kappa Alpha. Attend all meetings so that way they know you r int rested. I first pledge in 1999, I was on line but I had to get off line because I was pregnant. I loved learning how to step, even though I know all of the chants and steps. I can not do it no matter what. So Now I am getting back, looking to join for spring 2008. And remember discretion is the key must not let your Friends know U r Pledging
Reply:it depends
Why does 360 say page not found and i cant get an invite for 360 or create a 360 page?
when i try to go on 360 even on friends it says page not found, i cant even create one and i had one.
Why does 360 say page not found and i cant get an invite for 360 or create a 360 page?
If you don't have an activated 360 space, you can't receive an invite. Also, invitations on many 360 spaces (including my own) aren't working anyway right now. See http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-4D4zxsg6f... for more information on 360 glitches.
As far as accessing a 360 space (old or new), FIRST, consider all the possibilities listed below:
- If you've never set up the 360 space ON THIS ACCOUNT, then you'll need to activate it first. Log out of all Yahoo services. Go to http://360.yahoo.com and click on the Yellow "Get Started" button to go through the process. If it says your Yahoo ID is already in use, make sure you are completely logged out and that your browser's cache and cookies have been emptied.
- Check your firewalls %26amp; other security settings to make sure they aren't blocking the page or associated IP addresses for 360. You can disable the firewall for a second and check to see if you can access 360 then, although I hate recommending this.
- If you've had any change in your ISP service (like AT%26amp;T Yahoo or Verizon) that was connected to a 360 account, then the change can cause you to lose access. That means you were using the e-mail address that the ISP gave you instead of a Yahoo ID that you created (and controlled). Check with those sources to find out the deal. Bottom line: It's best that you use a Yahoo ID that you created rather than one provided through an ISP.
- If you've violated Yahoo Terms of Service (http://info.yahoo.com/legal/us/yahoo/uto... ) or 360 Community Guidelines (http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/360/gui... ), then you should check your Yahoo! Mail for a notice. Violations can cause 360 space deletion.
You should be able to do the following, when you've activated your 360:
- LOG OUT of all Yahoo services
- Go to http://360.yahoo.com
- Click the teeny tiny "Sign-in" link on the upper left of the page. After signing in, the page refreshes and you should click on the teeny tiny "Yahoo 360 Home" link on the upper right of the page to get into the 360 space.
NOTE: Make sure that you are using the Yahoo ID that was used to create your 360 space. The usual methods of accessing 360 are no longer working - i.e. via the Yahoo Toolbar and Y!Messenger (with the exception of the Y!360 plug in on version 8.1).
**************************************...
Now, if you've determined that the above possibilities don''t apply to you or don't work, then you only have five choices:
1) Try setting up or logging into your 360 space on another computer on a different network - library, your friend's computer...whatever.
2) Contact CUSTOMER CARE by clicking the button at the bottom of this page: http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/edit/re... , and ask them why the 360 part of your Yahoo account is inaccessible, then wait for their response. Although, this is customer service, so you may need to contact them a few times to get a response. When dealing with customer service, sometimes it's necessary to be persistent. You can also call 1-866-562-7219, 1-408-349-1572, 1-408-349-3300
Hours: 8a-5p M-F (Pacific)
3) Start a new 360 space by creating a new Yahoo account. Log out of all Yahoo services. Go to any Yahoo sign-in page and clicking "Sign Up" on the lower right side (http://mail.yahoo.com , is preferred). Then, once you've created a new account, go to http://360.yahoo.com and start creating your new 360 space from there. Click the BIG YELLOW "Get Started" BUTTON on the far right section of that page!
4) Wait to see if Y!360 transitioning to another social networking platform in the second half of 2008 will help your situation. Read more about that here: http://blog.360.yahoo.com/product_360 .
5) Give up on Yahoo! 360 and use another social networking service.
Good luck!
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Why does 360 say page not found and i cant get an invite for 360 or create a 360 page?
If you don't have an activated 360 space, you can't receive an invite. Also, invitations on many 360 spaces (including my own) aren't working anyway right now. See http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-4D4zxsg6f... for more information on 360 glitches.
As far as accessing a 360 space (old or new), FIRST, consider all the possibilities listed below:
- If you've never set up the 360 space ON THIS ACCOUNT, then you'll need to activate it first. Log out of all Yahoo services. Go to http://360.yahoo.com and click on the Yellow "Get Started" button to go through the process. If it says your Yahoo ID is already in use, make sure you are completely logged out and that your browser's cache and cookies have been emptied.
- Check your firewalls %26amp; other security settings to make sure they aren't blocking the page or associated IP addresses for 360. You can disable the firewall for a second and check to see if you can access 360 then, although I hate recommending this.
- If you've had any change in your ISP service (like AT%26amp;T Yahoo or Verizon) that was connected to a 360 account, then the change can cause you to lose access. That means you were using the e-mail address that the ISP gave you instead of a Yahoo ID that you created (and controlled). Check with those sources to find out the deal. Bottom line: It's best that you use a Yahoo ID that you created rather than one provided through an ISP.
- If you've violated Yahoo Terms of Service (http://info.yahoo.com/legal/us/yahoo/uto... ) or 360 Community Guidelines (http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/360/gui... ), then you should check your Yahoo! Mail for a notice. Violations can cause 360 space deletion.
You should be able to do the following, when you've activated your 360:
- LOG OUT of all Yahoo services
- Go to http://360.yahoo.com
- Click the teeny tiny "Sign-in" link on the upper left of the page. After signing in, the page refreshes and you should click on the teeny tiny "Yahoo 360 Home" link on the upper right of the page to get into the 360 space.
NOTE: Make sure that you are using the Yahoo ID that was used to create your 360 space. The usual methods of accessing 360 are no longer working - i.e. via the Yahoo Toolbar and Y!Messenger (with the exception of the Y!360 plug in on version 8.1).
**************************************...
Now, if you've determined that the above possibilities don''t apply to you or don't work, then you only have five choices:
1) Try setting up or logging into your 360 space on another computer on a different network - library, your friend's computer...whatever.
2) Contact CUSTOMER CARE by clicking the button at the bottom of this page: http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/edit/re... , and ask them why the 360 part of your Yahoo account is inaccessible, then wait for their response. Although, this is customer service, so you may need to contact them a few times to get a response. When dealing with customer service, sometimes it's necessary to be persistent. You can also call 1-866-562-7219, 1-408-349-1572, 1-408-349-3300
Hours: 8a-5p M-F (Pacific)
3) Start a new 360 space by creating a new Yahoo account. Log out of all Yahoo services. Go to any Yahoo sign-in page and clicking "Sign Up" on the lower right side (http://mail.yahoo.com , is preferred). Then, once you've created a new account, go to http://360.yahoo.com and start creating your new 360 space from there. Click the BIG YELLOW "Get Started" BUTTON on the far right section of that page!
4) Wait to see if Y!360 transitioning to another social networking platform in the second half of 2008 will help your situation. Read more about that here: http://blog.360.yahoo.com/product_360 .
5) Give up on Yahoo! 360 and use another social networking service.
Good luck!
Reply:Thanks for voting! Report Abuse
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