What is a polite way to not invite someone to a wedding?

My future husband and I met at a very young age, and hung out with the same group of people every day. When we got together all but one were very much in support of our relationship. She was one of my very best friends, and hated the fact that my fiance and I had gotten together, so much so she would kick me (and only me) out of her house, or try to get him alone to say terrible things about me. She lied to him, and a lot of our friends in an attempt to ruin the relationship.


For this and several other reasons we have distanced ourselves from this person.


Honey and I have both decided we don't want her at the wedding or reception, for the same reasons we have distance ourselves from her.


She is not the kind of person that can just sit back and take something, so I know when she hears about the wedding she will try anything to get an invite.


Could someone help me out with a POLITE way to say no. I am not trying to spite her, or hurt her in any way.
What is a polite way to not invite someone to a wedding?
It sounds like she has been very mean to you and your fiance. I don't think you need any secret tactics or super plan to not invite her to your wedding. Just don't send her an invitation and if she asks you have plenty reasons to back up your decision. You just have to hold your ground. It doesn't sound like she's a friend, and she shouldn't be apart of your life. She's a trouble maker.
Reply:a long distance away such as at nassau in the behamas
Reply:First of all, don't send her an invitation. If she has the nerve to ask why she wasn't invited, you could either be honest and say that you don't want her there because she wasn't supportive of your relationship, or you could say something like "We're having a small wedding." Good luck!