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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

How do not invite my friend to my birthday without hurting his feelings?

how do not invite my friend to my birthday without hurting his feelings?





i have a really close friend, and he doesn't fit in with any of my other friends, and i really like him (as a friend) but i don't know how to not invite him or if i just should because he is picked on by my other friends and we have different scenes at school. any suggestions??? (be real on this one guys)
How do not invite my friend to my birthday without hurting his feelings?
If he is your friend then you should be sticking up for him. Your other friends should be more appreciative of your other friends. Is he not cool enough to hang out with you in public. He must have a different background if the others make fun of him. You should at least give him a choice of whether or not he wants to come. Invite him and tell him who is on the guest list. He may not want to go either if he gets a hard time. Don't push him to come but he should at least be invited. If he does come then make sure that he feels welcome and tell your other friends not to pick on him. If they are your friends then they should respect your wishes if not then are they really your friends. On the other hand if he says that he will come then that is a measurement of what he is willing to go through because of your friendship. I think that the choice is right in front of your nose but you need a push to do the right thing.
Reply:just dont talk about around ur friend or say too many people r already coming
Reply:I feel your idea of not inviting him is wrong, and you should invite him if you are a real friend. I mean what kind of friend are you to not invite him to your birthday just because your other group of friends don't like him. How would you feel if he did that to you? I say you do not deserve to be his friend if you are that mean to someone who doesn't fit in with the "popular crowd"

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