Girls, if you wanted to reject a guy's invite, would you do it sooner, or wait a bit longer?

Alright so we're in college and I sent this girl a message asking her if she wanted to come hang out with us.





I know for a fact she went on facebook earlier but she hasn't messaged me back yet. If she didn't want to, she would've just messaged back "Sorry I'm busy those days" ASAP right? So whats up?
Girls, if you wanted to reject a guy's invite, would you do it sooner, or wait a bit longer?
she wouldn't necessarily answer back right away. She may figure if she just doesn't answer at all she's being nicer than telling you outright that she doesn't want to hang.
Reply:some girls just dont think much of it, god you need some time to think about whether or not you have time, and if its even worth going to.





its not even about rejecting the "GUY" its more about the "event" and how they would fit in that even. whether or not they know anyone there, if it sounds fun, or maybe they're having those weeks where they just got tired of clubbing or partying every week. and they just wanna relax.





when i think about events for me..im not sure about everyone else this is what i think of:





1)who do i know will go there? i dont wanna go by myself and end up alone the whole time





2) if im close to the person that sent the invite, i'll go. but sometimes i just feel like relaxing and not doing anything extreme.however, i will vary out the options. if they're close to me, i'll go for them and not necessarily about the event.





3)if i dont know the person that well, i will say no immediately because well, i dont owe him/her anything. i dont care much about them. 2) the event sounds whatever.





4)if i don't respond quickly it either means im not sure yet. kind of like...i'll see how the week goes.
Reply:She should have told you no as soon as possible - if she is planning on saying no. But, you know, "come hang out with us" is not really a specific invite that would need a specific response. And just because she went on Facebook does not mean that she took the time to check her inbox - she might have just done a status update from her phone or something.
Reply:Hey.... I can answer this one. She is probably either contemplating whether to go or not; or she is super nice and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you "No"; Or lastly she has been giving hints all along and thinks you should know by now that she is not interested in hanging out with you. Hope I have helped.
Reply:maybe she didnt see it. the inbox thing IS at the top and i have passed over it lots of times. but maybe she didnt feel like checking her inbox, i would give her maybe a day and if she hasnt replied, then worry.
Reply:she's just probably busy, that she might have forgotten to message you on facebook... Don't get your hopes up chances are she's not interested. Coz if she is interested she would have left you a message already.
Reply:yea she had to see it it's not goin to take that long to write a message may b she is in a bad mood or she really is tryin to avoid u
Reply:Okay personally i woulda writen back allready saying no sorry can't come. But she may be doing the whole wait a few days rule. Or maybs she just wasn't on long enough to actuali write you back. Don't stress it mate. :)
Reply:she might be thinking about it.


or, she might've signed onto facebook real quick just to check what she got and didn't have a chance to reply to anything yet (:


just wait (:
Reply:no, she might just ignore it and pretend she never got it. even though we all know that that is impossible on facebook haha.
Reply:Sooner
Reply:Yes it would of been nicer for her to say that. But maybe she just doesnt wanna lie to you or be mean by turning you down.. or maybe she really hasnt read it yet. im sorry..
Reply:Maybe she wants to rearrange things and is going to get back to you?
Reply:maybe she just hasn't checked her messages yet...give her some time you don't want to appear pushy.
Reply:shes not sure...DUH lol. wait it out or ask her in person.
Reply:maybe shes thinking about it
Reply:l
Reply:she flaked! duh
Reply:depends on the length of time. either right away or next time she sees/talks to you and she is not into that
Reply:i wouldve said so sooner, but thats just me.
Reply:tell her u hate here